Feminism has advanced to a place where I know:
-Women can do any job (and should be paid equally).
-Models are airbrushed (and you are beautiful, no matter what they say. Words can't bring you down).
-And all feelings are valid (you can be happy, sad, angry, silly, nerdy, competitive, artistic, tough, vulnerable,and as bad as you want to be. You contain multitudes).
Everyone likes travel, animals, trying new restaurants and quiet evenings on the couch now and then.
People might be making online dating too complicated.
I would like to exchange 2-4 emails to see if we are compatible. Then I would like to meet for coffee or a drink to see if we have chemistry in person. At that point, we will have "met new people" and can proceed like normal human beings with brains and hearts.
You can't say the wrong thing to the right person*.
Chemistry is complicated.
*(I know that you absolutely CAN say the wrong thing to the right person, like if you call them mean names or say their hair is gross. It's just an expression.)