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59 Fayetteville, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:06pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Not at all
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am here to meet new and interesting people, and hopefully make some friends.
Since 2007, I have lived in the countryside outside the city of Fayetteville, NC. I am originally from southern California and plan to move back there one, but not soon. I am a creature of change, which is not common, but it suits me. I move forward, not back, so I will be moving to the northern side of CA, not the southern end, where I have already been. I am more of an outdoors person and the Sierra Nevada mountains were made for me to explore for many years. In the meantime I will continue to enjoy the beauty of my surroundings and hopefully make some new friends.

I have lived all over this beautiful country and have enjoyed all of it. I am retired from the Department of Defense, 10 years in the Air Force, then as a contractor to the Navy in California.
I am the mother of three wonderful young men, who I raised by myself. My youngest boy is back living with me, and my other two are on the west coast.

I have been widowed since 1996 and have not really dated since then. I know, long time, it just didn't occur to me.
Lately though, I have begun to imagine that it would be nice to meet someone to go places and do things with.
It would have to be someone very special; someone who is happy with himself and who would like to meet someone to add to his life. Must love to laugh, I love to laugh.
I have no interest in meeting anyone who is looking for a meaningless fling or the like. I find those interested in shallow relationships, of any kind, shallow people. My friends are my friends forever, and vice versa.
I don't drink or use illegal drugs and don't want to meet anyone who does. (An occasional drink is the exception)
I have a good / odd sense of humor. Some may find me a bit sarcastic at times, but in a good way (I hope).
I am always kind, never mean and mostly happy.

I am generous, caring, and spiritual
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I volunteer where and when I am needed. Doing things that make others lives better makes me feel good about myself.

I spend many hours with my hands in the dirt, planting and growing things I love. When the weather is warm, I can be found outside.

I have recently (as of January, 2012) begun taking violin lessons and am having a frustratingly wonderful time with the endeavor. The more music in the world the better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making new things out of old things. I sew and do different crafty things when the mood is right. I can fix most anything and enjoy doing my own home improvement.

I am a great listener and can carry on a good conversation.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It always seems to be something different.......
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My very favorite reading TODAY is The Shack..
My very favorite movie is Enchanted April.
My very favorite song TODAY is Rolling in the Deep by Adele.
My favorite food is a tie between lobster and avocado.
Those are today, but will change, as everything does.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family and friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What surprises life holds in store for me......
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home with my doggies and cockatoos
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I believe that everyone and everything in this beautiful world is all part of one. Everything is everything and whatever we do to someone or something else we are doing to ourselves. Some people call it Karma.......
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are searching for someone real, though not perfect, but ALWAYS honest, and you think I may be the friend that is missing from your life. OR if you are a renown plastic surgeon who looks like George Clooney, sings like Cee Lo Green and loves to shop like a gay best friend. I'm flexible. :*)