Let me change all your pre-concieved notions on what/who crossdressers are... Once you get to know me, you'll see I'm not all that different that anyone else. This is NOT something that I always do, not does it define ALL of who I am, but it IS part of me. In fact, I'd like to think that these "softer" sides of me make me a better man.... I'm still a guy, I do guy things, have guy desires, and will jump quick to stand up for me and mine. Just because I wear a dress sometimes does not make me a perv, or less of a man. If you disagree, that's your prerogative, please move along....

I'm a guy that sometimes likes to express my "inner female", (think ying/yang). I came to this site to meet some other people.... new people for friendship and chat. I know there are a lot of wonderful people out there, hopefully some of them are on here. I would like to meet some new friends, and maybe something more if it came to that, but in the meantime, I'm just happy to chat and enjoy others company.

I can understand if you're a lady and can't appreciate a crossdresser... but if you don't give me a chance, you might miss out on a great new friend and a really good guy....

Working hard, trying to play hard when I get the chance... happy taking the high road.I've been through a lot in life, but I keep coming up swinging. I try to live each day to make me a better person than I was yesterday. I'm also happy being an uncle to my 7 nieces and nephews, and enjoy all of the fun that little kids can bring.

cooking, wine and wine tasting/pairing the right wine with the right food, playing guitar, being sweet and romantic and a little bit naughty...I also like to garden, spend time with my dogs.. I am a big history buff, like to hike and camp, discuss politics. Always looking for a partner in crime when it comes to "higher pursuits".

Let me guess... Well actually... I don't dress all of the time, in fact, me getting totally "dolled up" is rare. But it's fun... even if you don't understand it. Most people notice my eyes or curly hair (in my usual guy mode). I've also been told I have a great sense of humor, and people remake about my smile.

Books, movies and food.. I'm not a picky eater, but I DO love Italian, Caribbean, Chinese, Thai and Indian... The last book I read was Atlas Shrugged (Who is John Galt). As for music, my tastes run all over the board - mostly rock, blues, Jazz and New Wave (when it was NEW).

There's a lot of things, but my "girl" side would say (in no particular order): Long hot baths, good wine - no I mean GOOD wine, music, exceptional friends, my dogs.... The love and devotion of a special lady, and a little spice to balance vanilla. The guy side of me would say the first and second Amendments, my dogs, my friends and family... warm days, cool nights, cold beer and something yummy on the grill.

Being myself, wondering why this world is so uptight... Wondering how I can better balance my male/female energy. Wondering if there are people out there who can appreciate, and not overly-judge. What epicurean adventure I will next be undertaking.

not doing what I would like to be doing, picking on the guitar, out with friends, maybe cooking or watching a movie... maybe at the shooting range.

I'm knot gonna say.. you'll have to write and ask nicely....

if you are open minded, fun, silly, adventurous... think outside the box... and do not feel compelled to run with the pack. You're knot (no - that's not a misspelling) always good... If you are THIS person, then you know what I'm talking about! But most of all, you should message me if you feel the person lies within, and want to take a chance to know the real me. I might even show you my guy OKC account! OH! If you like a guy that can cook, pick a great wine, enjoy a movie or the theater, or just sit back and have a meaningful conversation.

You SHOULD NOT contact me if you blame Bush for every perceived misfortune in your life; if you think Obama is the Chosen One!