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31 M Downham Market, United Kingdom

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Yesterday – 9:46pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
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Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
To summarise myself I’ll just give you a list, in no particular order, of things that are important to me:

Being creative:
Be it writing stories, drawing, coming up with ideas for films and videos I never have the time, resources or collaborators to make.

I presently spend most of my free time working on a web comic, which, while it deals with geeky subjects and 99% of people won't understand what the joke is meant to be, is not as clever as xkcd, but then I'm probably not as clever as Randall Munroe.

Most of subscriptions on YouTube are to edutainment channels like Vsauce, Numberphile, MinutePhysics, ViHart… the list goes on. I love watching shows about science and history, from the more simple TV shows like Brian Cox’s Wonders through to the deeper shows like Horizon. If it’s about something I’m particularly interested in then the purer the better. I also occasionally go on information binges on Wikipedia.

Following the scientific method, research and technology has moved us along as a species. Superstition has held us back. I don’t believe in God, and I’m an atheist - although I do have problems the semantics of that word causes when debating the issue.

I’m a big supporter of equality. The equality of people from different races and nationalities. The equality of LGBT people. The equality of women in society. I’m also a believer that as a society we should take care of each other, I am a very strong supporter of tax payer funded healthcare that is free at the point of use. You can’t control when you get ill, and run as a private enterprise healthcare’s primary mission becomes one to make money for its shareholders rather than care for its patients.

This is more of an aspirational thing, and I don’t want to give the impression I am a hugely experienced traveller because I am not. However I do like travelling to new places, and not to just enjoy good weather and sun bathe on a beach. I like to explore new places, see incredible views and visit interesting cities and towns from all over the world. Most of my travels have been across Europe (and I have done a few substantial road trips there) but - given the time and the money to do it I’d like to visit as many places as I can.

Formula 1:
I’m a huge fan of Formula 1, slightly obsessed - although maybe you may not realise that if you met me in person. I don’t go on about it a huge amount unless I’m talking to someone I know is a fan of it. I love the sport because it’s a mix of advanced technology which I can read up on, political intrigue that goes on between the races, and elite skill - the fitness of the drivers and how refined their talent is is incredible… but don’t worry if you don’t like it, because as I said, it’s not something I talk about unless the other person is interested.
What I’m doing with my life
By day I’m a self employed computer programmer / web developer. This is a means to an end though, and while I enjoy the challenge of the problem solving aspect of my job ultimately it’s a means to an end. I’m reconsidering my options at the moment and looking at how to move forwards in my life.

By night and weekend I spend my time working on my various creative endeavours - most notably a satirical webcomic (focused mainly on science, technology and geek culture) which takes up a lot of my time thanks to the fact I am trying to keep to a Monday / Wednesday / Friday publishing schedule. The humour is like xkcd, only not quite as smart. If you’re interested you can see it here:

My Web Comic: Random Perspective Comic
I’m really good at
I think I have good critical analysis skills and I’m a good troubleshooter and problem solver.

I also hope that I come up with good stories. I wrote a novel when I was 18 and I’ve since been working on a [unrelated] series of novels for a while (well I’m halfway through the first one) - so I hope I’m not wasting my time…
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Why limit this section to books, movies, shows, music and food? There are loads more things that can go in this section that I care about

Half Life / Half Life 2 / The Orange Box, Portal / Portal 2, Gears of War / Gears of War 2 / Gears of War 3, Deus Ex, Quake 2, Quake 3, Project Gotham Racing 4, Forza 3, Test Drive Unlimited, GTA IV, Mirror's Edge, Fahrenheit, Assassin's Creed 1 / 2 / Brotherhood / Revelations, Max Payne / Max Payne 2, Transport Tycoon, Repton, Chuckie Egg, Sokoban, Thrust, Civilization 3 / 4 / 5 , Mass Effect / Mass Effect 2 / Mass Effect 3, Fallout 3, Skyrim, Spec Ops: The Line, Manic Miner, Fez, FTL

YouTube Channels / Internet Shows:
Red vs Blue, minutephysics, numberphile, Vihart, CGPGrey. melodysheep, Vsauce, sillysparrowness , Zero Punctuation, Extra Credits, Tom Scott, computerphile, Veritasium (and loads more...)

Animal Farm, 1984, Use of Weapons, The Player of Games, Our Dumb Century, Our Dumb World

I have recently got into:
Death Note, Perfect Blue, Paprika, Akira, RWBY

Please feel free to recommend some more to me

Black Swan, Requiem for a Dream, Pi, Fight Club, Brazil, Twelve Monkeys, American Beauty, Gattaca, Dark City, No Country For Old Men, Fargo, Monty Python & The Life of Brian, Dr Strangelove, Gloomy Sunday, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill, 2001: A Space Odyssey, The Terminator , Moon, District 9, Leon, Inglourious Basterds, LA Confidential, Bourne Trilogy, Team America, Sin City, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, Dark Knight Rises, Layer Cake (and loads of others), Running

Radiohead, Muse, The Eels, The Mars Volta, The Red Hot Chili Peppers, The Manic Street Preachers, The Duke Spirit, Pink Floyd, Damien Rice, King Crimson, The Strokes, The White Stripes, Mozart, Delerium, Lamb, Jeff Williams, Royksopp, Symphony of Science and others (this is to give you a flavour).

Note, some of these bands are some I have only recently got in to so don't message me expecting to discuss all of their discography in minute detail

The IT Crowd, Brass Eye, The Day Today, Peep Show, The Inbetweeners, The Big Bang Theory (once I managed to tune out the awful, awful studio laughter), It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Blake's 7, Dr Who - ( I prefer Matt Smith to David Tennant ),House, Ashes to Ashes, Life on Mars (UK version), Lost (ending sucked though), South Park, Family Guy/American Dad/Cleveland Show, The Office (UK version is better although I like the US version, it's getting tired though), Torchwood (Children of Earth specifically), Grand Designs,24 (Mainly seasons 1-3), Spooks (earlier seasons), Extras, Red Dwarf, Star Trek (Mainly, The Next Generation) Fawlty Towers, A Touch of Cloth, Screenwipe, Newswipe, Weekly Wipe, Derek

Ricky Gervais, Bill Bailey, Rooster Teeth, Zero Punctuation, Charlie Brooker, David Mitchell, Marcus Brigstocke, Monty Python, Tim Minchin, Paul Merton, Michael McIntyre, Jimmy Carr Stephen Colbert, Jon Stewart, Rhod Glibert, Me

Food and Drink:
Fajitas, Cannelloni, Tortellini, Spaghetti alla Bolognese, Lasagne, my own crazy creations, Creme Brulee, Pancakes (UK and US style), Chocolate, Ice Cream, Peppermint Tea, Apple & Blueberry Tea, Milk, Smoothies, Tea, White Wine, Peach flavoured Iced-tea, Milkshakes

Places (that I have been to):
Barcelona, Norwich, Berlin, King's Lynn, Edinburgh, Newcastle Upon Tyne, Snettisham Beach, Loch Lomond, Gothenburg, Stockholm, Vienna Switzerland, Chicago, New York City, Toronto, Alps, The sixth moon of Saturn, Florence, Heidelberg, San Francisco, Seattle, San Antonio
The six things I could never do without
The Internet
Something to write on
The ability to travel the world freely
My imagination
Living in a socialised nation
The ability to freely communicate
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably working on my ideas for the webcomics I will publish the following week… they currently take up a lot of my time!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I'm looking to meet people who share in my philosophy on life, even if they don't necessarily agree with everything. I love to have intense and interesting discussions, to have my ideas challenged (so long as there is give and take in those discussions) - so with that in mind feel free to contact me about anything.

If you'd like some pointers though, here are a few things to get the conversation started:

* If you have read my webcomic and you liked it.
* If you like to read sci fi and are interested in finding out about my novel
* Formula 1
* If you have an interest in computer games.
* If you are interested in Anime and would like to recommend some for me to watch.
* If you are a fascinated by the Internet, work in the field, and want to talk about the development of the technology
* If you are coming to Norfolk, think we would get on, and would like to meet up
* If you want to have an open minded discussion about the future of relationships, in the 21st century, gender and sexuality equality

Reasons for not messaging me would include:
* if you don't understand where an Atheist can 'get their morals from'
* you think that creationism is a viable alternative explanation to natural selection
* you think that you have right to deny the rights you have as a straight person from people who are of different orientations
* you think that the NHS is exactly like Sarah Palin, Fox News and Glenn Beck portrays it.
* you think that your country (whether it is the same as mine or different) is 'the best' and better than every other country in every regard.
* you think the world is divided into good guys and bad guys and if you're not with us you're with them
* you think all sci-fi is stupid and even though there is a case for a large percentage of it being badly written that therefore means that none of it has merit
* you think that all computer games are for kids and playing them is a totally pointless activity