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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 29
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other, and very serious about it
Graduated from high school
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I moved to Thornton, CO in May of 2014, and still looking to meet cool people and build a new circle of friends!

So I noticed that I tend to just skim long, super-specific descriptions, so here's a basic rundown of me:

*Nerd at heart: I play tabletop roleplaying games, video games, card games, enjoy science fiction, fantasy, anime, and the internetz (Redditor here!).

*Eclectic Pagan. Though really, I'm not one to pray or worship, but I practice various forms of magic and am very spiritual in my life. Honestly, it's probably more accurate to describe myself as a non-religious Sorcerer.

*Married to an incredible woman, with whom I have a beautiful 3 year old son, both of whom I love more than anything.

*Polyamorous. We only recently went from an "open" marriage to polyamory, though according to my wife I've actually been poly for some time now :P If you don't know what polyamory is, look it up.

*Bisexual (pansexual?), though admittedly I find myself attracted to more women than men. Really, physical attraction is a far second to personality, though. My wife is bi as well.

Other than that, I'm a pretty laid-back guy. I've got a good sense of humor, and I like to listen to people talk about things they're passionate about (and if I'm passionate about it too, we can have fantastic conversation). There are very few types of people I just DON'T get along with.

I'd like to meet more like-minded people in my area, so if you're interested in something here or even just want to talk about it, feel free to shoot me a message.

For anyone into Astrology:
Sun Sign - Gemini
Moon Sign - Gemini
Ascendant Sign - Libra
Yeah, three Air signs. I feel like it gives a pretty accurate picture of my personality :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working for King Soopers grocery stores, on the night shift. I'm naturally a night person anyway, but it makes it difficult to meet people and do social things sometimes.

Once my wife's done with school I will be going for an English degree, hopefully so I can get a job somewhere as an editor. Assuming I don't end up making decent money as either a professional Sorcerer or published writer, anyway.

Most of my time is spent either sleeping, working, or spending time with my son, but since my move to Colorado I've made it a point to make time to be social.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Video games, algebra, the English language, I'm decent with computers, and I'm good at figuring out how things work. I'm also excellent at reading people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My long hair and my cheery disposition :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
In no particular order:

Pathfinder (tabletop RPG)
Demon's Souls/Dark Souls (PS3)
Team Fortress 2
Super Smash Bros (Nintendo)
Legend of Zelda (I'm actually kind of a huge Zelda fanboy)

The Wheel of Time
The Dresden Files
The Lord of the Rings

*TV Shows
Doctor Who
Buffy the Vampire Slayer/Angel

Waking Life
The Matrix
Scott Pilgrim vs the World
The Fifth Element
The Mummy
World War Z

Lindsey Stirling
90s Alternative rock

Oriental food (esp. Sushi and dim sum!)
Sub sandwiches
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tabletop roleplaying games
My wife & son
A computer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
magic and spirituality, and how it relates to whatever I happen to be doing at the time. Also, I sometimes have bouts of inspiration for D&D/PF characters, and might spend a week or so fleshing out a character I might not even use.

I also have a tendency to think a lot about gender, sexuality, and relationship models. I love to talk with people and hear about individuals' experiences with this stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping and working. Retail makes "weekends" pretty much meaningless.

On my days off, however, I try to make some sort of social plans, but failing that I'll probably be sitting on my computer playing something or getting lost in the tides of the internet. Occasionally I'll get restless and wander the town.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I heard a line that I really liked: "my life is an open book, but not a megaphone." So just ask, be it spiritual, nerdy, or even sexual in nature, and I'll be straightforward and honest.

...that said, though, I have an unreasonable love of certain 80s movies, most notably Demolition Man (w/ Sandra Bullock and Sylvester Stallon) and Speed (Keanu Reeves pre-Matrix)

Also! I'm bisexual, but I haven't had a lot of experience with guys. I honestly still don't know what I like in a guy, exactly.
You should message me if
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Any of the following apply:
- You're a computer and/or tabletop gamer
- You practice magic(k), or are generally of a spiritual mindset
- You're looking for a friend
- You just want to get to know me, or want to learn about some aspect of my life
- You want someone to tell your dreams/secrets to. I won't judge!

*Disclaimer: I tend to be very loose-lipped with my responses. If you ask me a question, be forewarned that you might get more information than you were looking for :)

I'm good with deep conversation, but kinda crappy at small talk. Please don't message me with "so, how about the weather?".