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53 F Albuquerque, NM

My Details

Last Online
Aug 18
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Fun is a state of mind more than an activity. Know what I mean?

I've seen people whine and complain their way through a five star meal and I've laughed my ass off with friends while changing a flat tire.   

I am passionate about life. I believe it's all fun and games and joy is both the journey and the destination.   

Activities?  I love it all, well nearly. Most anything on the water,  nearly anything outdoors that doesn't involving killing or mangling anything - hiking, biking, canoeing,  rafting, skiing, snow shoeing. I love movies,  all kinds,  big Hollywood, little Indies,  foreign films,  documentaries.  I read a lot, mostly fiction and about wellness.   I love amusement parks,  little cafes, people watching and talking with dogs, watching the wee birds, the ducks, the fish jump, the trees bud, the sunset.

How's that for starters? Oh, and I just moved back after a sojourn, and it's great to be home again among my people.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a healer, writer, entrepreneur, wise woman, and kick ass, service oriented sales woman.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Looking at the bright side, seeing the best in others, laughing hard and often, loving deeply and generously, and being in the moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Turkish food, especially from a little café I lived near in Seattle. Istanbul is one of my top planned travel destinations.
I love smoothies, juices, raw organic salads, homemade soup, and warm fresh bread.
I'm currently hooked on the "When Woman Were Warriors" book series, another favorite is the Outlander book series. I've read all the Harry Potter books, Millford Father Tim series. I love anything by Annie Dillard, Ivan Doig, Louise Erdich, and Dr. Suess.
I'm a film junkie. And love nearly all of it. Current faves include The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, Last Vegas, The Big Wedding, Bourne anything, the 077s, 61, Twelve Years as a Slave, Haute Cusine, Alltogether, Cloudburst, and Elena Undone, I Can't Think Straight, Whale Rider, Smoke Signals, Under The Tucsan Sun, Brown Sugar, Something Wonderful.
I watch a little bit of TV on Netflix. Favs are the lesbian moms series The Fosters, and Drop Dead Diva, and Leverage. Friends is still my very far series.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Truth is there's nothing I could do without, even this bag of bones and skin that currently clothes my Spirit.
I thought I couldn't live without my dogs, but after they both leaped the great abyss to the other side, I discovered life continues.
I do though treasure my smartphone, sunshine, family, friends, hot baths with mineral salts, dreams, goals, great food, love, and Infinite Love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How blessed I am, how grateful I am, that all is well, and all will always be well.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's is no typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ha! I'm a double Scorpio, everything is on a need to know basis, though I'm working to change that.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 35–56
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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What I've written resonates and you'd like to leap out of the surreal safety of cyberspace and have coffee, tea, check out a movie, or go for a walk, go on date, or meet a friend for hiking, movies, art walks and other fun.