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26 M San Jose, CA

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Asian, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Instagram if you want to lurk - LostBoy_EA

I wrote a lot, but I wrote a lot because THIS is me making the first move. This is me putting myself out there, I'm showing you what I'm about, and either you like it or you don't. I've come to realize that most of the people on here write profiles with little to no substance that give no insight into who they are. If you like what you read let me know, and I'll take it from there, but ladies, some of you are just as bad as the guys on here. If you send me a message and it just says "Hey" or :) , chances are I am going to say "Hey" back repeatedly until you say something of relevance.

Recently returned Air Force vet after living overseas for the past 4 years. I’ve traveled to many different places and seen a lot of things most people never have the chance to, but Cali will always be Home. After moving around so much the idea of staying in one place for a while and establishing myself and lasting friendships/relationships sounds pretty good right now haha. Tired of meaningless interactions and relationships. I'd like to meet someone tangible and have a real connection.

I can be very busy during the week so It's really hard for me to meet new people, but I'd like to make some new interesting friends with similar interests outside my current circle.
What I’m doing with my life
Totally cliche that I work as an engineer for a tech company?

Enjoying life as much as I can. Life is too short to not make the best of every waking moment. Taking advantage of all the great opportunities to do things around me, reminding myself that I was stuck in the middle of the desert for a year and a half so always down to do something new and/or fun!


Working hard at a tech company so I can play harder. Still adjusting to the idea of doing a similar job to what I did in the military, but without people trying to kill me (Although morning traffic on the 101 has proven to be nearly as dangerous and I'm convinced Prius drivers are the worst and terrorists in their own right)

I love working out and keeping a healthy mind and body. That being said though I'm not a pretentious snob about it, nor do I restrict myself from having a good time or enjoying something. Low calorie Vodka? No thanks. My love for food and fitness sometimes conflict, but it's all about balance and moderation.

I have a very close circle of friends that I spend a lot of time with but I think it would be great to meet someone outside that circle that I can go out and share experiences with, trying new things, seeing new places, and eating new foods.
I’m really good at
- Not caring what others think, being myself and knowing who I am as a person
- Kissing
- Loving bacon.
- I enjoy cooking, especially breakfast.
- Singing horribly in the car.
- Finding awesome things to watch on Netflix
- Playing games. Board/Video/Drinking, I am highly competitive
- Taking over the dance floor with my signature moves.
- Drinking 151
- Nerding it up.
- Joking around a lot, but knowing when to be serious.
- Balancing being both an intellectual and physical being
The first things people usually notice about me
Racial ambiguity?
Big booty? (You laugh, but I'm serious)
Idunno, you tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Card, Murakami, Salinger, Tolkein

Movies - Brick, OldBoy, 21/22 Jump Street, 4 Brothers, Wedding Crashers, Looper, Inception, Children of Men, City of God, Drive, Garden State, The Warriors, The Wolf of Wall Street, That Awkward Moment

TV Shows - Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Tosh.O, Sons of Anarchy, Boardwalk Empire, Dexter, How I Met Your Mother, Modern Family, Community, Girls, Bates Motel, Breaking Bad, Suits, The Following, Workaholics, The Killing, Orange Is The New Black

Music - My musical taste is all over the place, and I listen to anything from EDM, ratchet ass hip hop, to whiskey drinkin country on a daily basis. Some of my faves include: Animal Collective, Beach House, Best Coast, Calvin Harris, Childish Gambino, Cloud Nothings, Death Grips, Dillon Francis, Disclosure, DJ Carnage, Drake, El - P, Frank Ocean, Grimes, Grizzly Bear, Hardwell, Hot Chip, John Legend, Kendrick Lamar, Kid Cudi, The Knife, Lana Del Rey, Lockah, Luke Bryan, M83, MGMT, Miguel, The Postal Service, Purity Ring, Rage Against The Machine, The Strokes, Sublime, Tokimonsta, Toro y Moi, Washed Out, The Weeknd, Weezer, Zedd, and 2Pac.

Food - I love trying new foods. Sushi will always be #1 in my heart. Indian, Mexican, Italian, Korean. I love Umami Burger, if you haven't been, it's a must. Tell me about some of your favorite places to eat so we can check them out!

Sports - This isn't a section but it should be. I grew up playing baseball, basketball and hockey. A's, Dodgers, Lakers, Warriors, Sharks, and the 9ers are my teams. Notice I didn't say Giants? We don't have to like the same team, I enjoy some friendly competition ;)
The six things I could never do without
- CHAPSTICK (I seriously can't leave the house without it)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- FOOD....constantly
- Cogito Ergo Sum
- Bad Bitches...and that's my problem.
- What life experiences made you the way you are.
- Who you REALLY are, as oppose to who you let others see.
- "I've been thinking 'bout you (You know, know, know)"
- What you look like without make up, and if it's like waking up next to a different person in the morning
- The motivation behind people's actions
On a typical Friday night I am
- Out with the people I love taking on the world slightly intoxicated.
- Home with take out and Netflix catching up on my favorite shows/movies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't eat fried chicken and I'm afraid of snakes. Stories for all of course. Maybe I'll tell you on our first date.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
*What I'm Looking For*
- Friends, Gym Buddies, Fellow Film Buffs, Concert Goers, Drinking Buddies, and Activity Partners.

Someone asked me "what's your type?". These are just characteristics that I personally find attractive in a woman. It's difficult to decide whether you're interested in someone just by reading an online profile, but I think it definitely gives you more insight as oppose to meeting someone at a bar.)
- Driven (Someone that knows what they want and are working towards it)
- Active (Because as much as I want to sit on the couch with you all day and watch 16 and Pregnant...I don't. Some days I like to chill, but not every day of the week.)
- Not a B*tch (Don't be a b*tch or I'll punch you in the throat! Kidding, I would never hit a woman, well other than some spanking)
- Fun (Don't be boring, a girl looks best when she's smiling and laughing. Let's go on adventures together)
- Fit (I like a girl that takes care of her body, I need someone that is going to have my back when the zombie apocalypse hits. The Maggie to my Glenn)
- Beautiful (I like beautiful girls, sorry I'm not sorry. This goes for inside and out. A pretty face is nothing with an ugly heart.)
- Confident (Confidence is sexy in women too)
- Intelligent (A beautiful mind is more attractive to me than double D's)
- Must Have Eyebrows (If your eyebrows are sharpie thin and melt off in the pool I will Exorcise you! But seriously this freaks me out for some reason.)
- You believe in Equality (I had no idea there were so many anti gay/racist people on here. If you're either of these you can suck 1000 interracial gay dicks)

Oh shit. You made it THIS far? Congratulations, now here is a cookie. No but seriously, let's go to CREAM and get ice cream sandwiches haha.