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56 M Silver Spring, MD

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Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I've been in no hurry, but would benefit a great deal by getting off okcupid with a lovely girlfriend. I work in art and culture as opposed to the sciences, business or politics and am intelligent and artistic, warm and cool, politically literate, generous and indulgent, and reasonably cultivated. I've been told that I have the loquacious manner and friendly, casual charm of my Irish cultural inheritance. A compliment I take with the modesty for which we are so well known...
... which is why I mention it.

I've been divorced for more than ten years, have no children and would love to meet a younger woman to share special times and sensual connection... friendship, warmth and humor... Someone who enjoys simple pleasures, likes me to distraction and finds it easy to be together. Both of us are looking for someone to invest in. I need shared values, sex and intimacy with a woman whose qualities reflect my own.

I want what everyone wants in a friend... Kindness, loyalty, playfulness and intellectual curiosity. And what everyone wants in a girlfriend. Fun and affection... Excitement, frivolity, and enchantment. Friendship take time, but chemistry and physical attraction are the key starters for me... the necessary recipe. Chemistry and attraction are what I care about most.

- I love languages, but only speak one.
- Am culturally aware ... but prefer simple things.
- Maintain a slender physic and very youthful appearance.
- Am friendly, thoughtful and love a clever sense of humor.
- Have no respect for conservative politics... just not interested.
- Try to be patient and understanding, and generally tip too much.
- Equally social and self-contained, I also enjoy my own company.
- Drive fast but always use my turn signal even if no one's looking.
- And like to sleep in and take day trips with someone special.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living, working, learning, enjoying my profession. Mentoring younger people in my field, and enjoying life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Appreciating beauty in the everyday.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well, obviously how handsome, witty and charming I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I tend to read nonfiction... Some of my books are The Shock Doctrine; Education of the Senses; The Wayfinders; In Search of Memory… Music, the Brain and Ecstasy'.... and online I particularly like Salon.

Don't watch much TV, but tend toward current-events, and enjoy political satire and a wicked sense of humor... Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert. I really enjoy movies but don’t often see them on my own, and I enjoy many forms of music, but love... I mean really love... Classic Soul and Old School R & B; and Symphony... especially Russian Romantic symphony and Italian Opera (and French too) and Russian Ballet.

Let's say... Marvin Gaye... the Isley Brothers and mighty mighty O'Jays ... I love Ella Fitzgerald, and enjoy most sultry female jazz vocalists... and Tchaikovsky, Verdi and of course... Puccini.

I also enjoy nice food and wine and prefer something lean and healthy… again Italian. And I always appreciate the exquisite and aesthetic, but can’t call myself a foodie because I have an austere streak... can be picky, which makes for a narrow pallet, and really enjoy being slender, which keeps my caloric intake on the low side. I appreciate subtlety and don't like too much spice or processed animal parts, and am therefore not gastronomically adventurous. And although not vegetarian... I'm sympathetic to a diet that leans that way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music and Arts
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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- I'm looking for a real connection.
- I also enjoy nature but am not totally outdoorsy... and the female version of that is not my type.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You are slender and feminine with a touch of feline sophistication and style. You're younger than me and looking forward in life more than back.
I have no interest in smokers, republicans or conservatives of any type. We wouldn't get along... trust me.
Instead you’re creative and fun... maybe artistic... sexy and cool with a playful spirit, liberal values and an internal life. Just a little more urbane than not... you find world culture, art, music and ideas important too.