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56 Silver Spring, MD Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Today – 9:22pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly other
Masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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Love is our finest instinct... a magically sensible urge, designed by nature to keep special people we know we can depend on close. I've been in no hurry, but would benefit a great deal by getting off OKCupid with a lovely girlfriend. Divorced for more than ten years with no children, I’m looking for shared values and intimacy in a woman whose qualities reflect my own. A partner in crime to share special times, common goals... sensuality, warmth and humor. A woman who loves simple pleasures, likes me out of all proportion, and finds it fun and easy to be together.

I'm a successful professional in arts and culture, well regarded in my field, but not in the white collar, suit and tie mold. More suede and camel hair... tweeds and turtlenecks. I have a naturally slender build and find myself quite attracted to the same. Culturally aware but prefer simple things… drive a ragtop, enjoy day trips and use my turn signal even when no one's looking. And I can enjoy a good red ale or craft beer, but prefer wine, and like my humor dry. I also love nature, but am not into roughing it and prefer a warm bed and a shower in the morning and the company of a woman who's consciously feminine and likes to spoon.

An appreciator of classic feminine style... culottes and Capri pants... silk scarves, and feline sophistication, I thrill to the company of a younger woman who’s stylish, a little urbane and still looking forward in life. You're hip, confident, educated and down to earth... creative and cool with a playful spirit and liberal values. You find conservative political values uninteresting and unacceptable in someone you respect, and world culture, art and music compelling, exciting and important.

I want what everyone wants in a best friend... a wicked wit and playful spirit... loyalty, curiosity and intellect. And what everyone wants in a girlfriend... affection and excitement, frivolity, love and enchantment. Friendships thrive on generosity and cultivation, but physical attraction and chemistry is the necessary recipe... the divine spark for a connection that's exclusive, unique and special.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an art conservator in a public institution.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... my craft... and appreciating beauty everyday.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well, obviously how handsome, witty and charming I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hmmm.. My taste.
I tend to read nonfiction and have an art history background, but easy and accessible taste, and enjoy the Sunday NYT... The Atlantic... and online I like Salon.

I grew up around DC which is a soul town, and really love Classic Soul and Old School R&B. And Symphony... Especially Russian romantic symphony Tchaikovsky and Rachmaninov, and German of course... Beethoven's Pastoral #6. And Italian Opera... Verdi and Puccini!

Nice food is always nice, and wine is wonderful, though I don't drink much and prefer to eat something lean and healthy, but can’t call myself a foodie because I have an austere streak and enjoy being slender, which keeps my caloric intake on the low side. And I can simply forget to eat if I'm really focused elsewhere... the austere streak.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music and Arts
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Meeting someone and getting off this site forever...
- And whether anyone actually ever reads this...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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- I'm actually more partial to the adagio movement than the allegro...

- I'm a public employee in the cultural sector and flat out don't accommodate conservative politics...
... No Fiscal Conservatives... Cultural Conservatives...
Anti-Intellectuals... Right-Wingers... Libertarians... Anti-Government Moochers... Self-Satisfied Moralists... Fox News Lovers... Political-Correctness "Victims"... Neo-Conservative/ Neo-Liberal/ Neo-Confederates... Patriots... Sociopaths... Gun Enthusiats... Unregulated "Free-Market" Capitalists... Trickle-Down Economists... Trust-Fund Scolds... Public-Assistance Humiliators... Teacher's Union Busters... Flat Taxers... Anti-Vaxxers... Birthers... Truthers... Conspiracy Theorists... Tea-Partiers... Flat-Earthers... John Birchers... Fundamentalists... Fascists... Homophobes... Science-Haters... Climate-Change Deniers... End-Of-Times Dominionists... "Christian-Taliban"... Bloody "Pro-Life" Capital-Punishment-Supporters... Chamber Of Commerce Republicans... Country Club Republicans... or "Middle Of The Road" Republicans.
...None Of It.
You should message me if
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* According to the OkCupid - 'YOUR TYPE OF GIRL TEST' - my type is the "Girl Next Door". You're a classic in any case... younger than me, slender, stylish, sexy and fun, and would love to walk away from this site and not look back.