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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33-48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Turkish (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I’m really good at
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I am good with numbers . they speak to me. I am a fierce backgammon player. Though the numbers can help you but at one point you have to follow your heart......
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Paul Auster, Haruki Murakami, Orhan Pamuk, Charles Bukoswky, John Fante , Jose Saramago, Neruda to name few of my favorite writers.
Movies : Wong Kar Wai, Almadovar, Woody Allen, Coen Brothers, Nuri Bilge Ceylan, Hayao Miyazaki
Music :Tom Waits,Keith Jarret, Steven Bernstein's MTO, The Bad Plus, Miles Davis, Chet Baker, Monk, Chopin,
Performance : Modern Dance: David Dorfman Dance,
Art : Photograpy, I am myself a serious amateur.Ok ...not that serious . it is my hobby....but my living room can turn into a photo studio but also love shooting out on the streets . The Photographers I admire: Sabastiao Salgado, Daido Moriyama, Ara Guler, Avedon, Lindsey Addario.....

Food : Sushi is what I would eat as last thing to enjoy if I knew the world to end the day after. Probably at Ushiwakamaru, if I can't make to Japan....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1: Pencils and the sharpener of course.
2: Camera : My dear Leica M - nope it's not film.This classic rangefinder body has a digital sensor update on it. But still can fit any lens made back in 50s. Never leave home without it.
3: My Vespa PX . It gets me anywhere in the city in 15 minutes. Its two stroke engine in a spring morning is a music to my ears. ( a helmet )
4:All digital gadgets by Apple. ( update pass on apple watch )
5: Coffee and my Peugeot manual coffee grinder. A design that hasn't changed since 1800s. The best way to get the flavor out of beans. Certain things should stay low-tech.
6: Jazz : preferably live at the Smalls.
6: Sushi...
6. NY Times Sunday Paper
6: Converse Slip-ons. Have multiple pairs of them.

and as for 7 : none of the above. we human beings have amazing ability to adopt to new conditions. we can give up any habits and adopt new ones if need to
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
do the trees feel, hear us? Do I need to trim my beard today or tomorrow?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
it depends. Meeting up friends for movies , drinks or enjoy being by myself at home with music and a good book. It is a thrill to come home from work every other friday. I have an awesome cleaning person that makes my place spotless. Those nights are more likely that I might be home.
You should message me if
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you are on left side of the Political Spectrum, against Death Penalty, you are pro-choice, support gay marriage, preferably atheist , or agnostic , or religious but you don't think your religious values are the only true values. ( in the end people created gods not gods created people ) . you have a curious mind and you like to is fine if Alchemist inspired you but your reading taste goes well beyond that...