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53 White Plains, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:07pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a modern guy with old fashioned traditional values. I was raised in upstate New York, but have been living in Westchester County for the past 20 years. I'm genuine, dependable, honest, financially independent, caring and have a heart of gold. I'm a great friend and believe in treating my partner well. I'm a giver and a nurturer. I enjoy spending time with with family and close friends. I commute into the city to the Chelsea area.

I enjoy going to the museums (I compare the Museum of Natural History to Disney World because there are so many interesting exhibits to see but I haven't been able to do it all in one day, so you always have to go back), going to Broadway shows and then there's the food to enjoy too. Although I do like fine dining, I also like to occasionally grab a bite to eat at a diner or perhaps Five Guys. Now be honest with yourself, don't you deserve someone like me?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, but my life is not defined by my job. Work is good and it pays the bills, but there's still so much to do...join me?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've got broad shoulders to lean on and my listening skills are above average. So come lean on me and let me know how I can help or just to listen. I also make a delicious banana bread.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my height (not many Chinese guys at 6'0").
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy reading these authors - Clive Cussler, Daniel Silva, Lee Child, Wilbur Smith, Lisa Scottoline and the list goes on and on. I like to watch action, drama, comedies (yes, even romantic comedies) and the occasional critically acclaimed movies. To date, my favorite Broadway shows have been Stomp, Jersey Boys and Wicked (all highly recommended). Music preferences would be Classic Rock, Top 40 radio, classical (especially Rimsky Korsakov), Maroon 5, Coldplay, Frank Sinatra, Michael Buble, Sarah Bareleis, Adele and more. Ray Donovan and Game of Thrones.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family & friends
Love & romance
Books & movies
Kissing & holding hands
oops, that's 8...but what if I combine them? then it's really only 4 and then I have 2 more, right?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wondering where you are, meeting you and removing myself from this website.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing from the week, getting together for dinner with friends or at home watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I occasionally like to listen to Abba, Barry Manilow and John Denver. Come on, you listen to them too, don't you?!
You should message me if
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You're over your ex and do want to be in a long-term relationship.

You're into board games. Not playing games in matters of the heart.

You believe in open communication and compromise.

You're interested and/or the least bit curious. Although initial emails are fun, I'm interested in meeting you, as chemistry can only be felt in person; otherwise what's the point of being on this dating site?