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30 M San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 26
Black, Hispanic / Latin
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love to laugh. I don't like summarizing myself in a paragraph. I have never been too great at these type of things. But I can throw some words out there that hit around my bulls-eye. eccentric, eclectic, geek, compassionate, loquacious, rebel, boisterous, rough, soul, super awesome & high-five! I am easy going and can get along with just about anyone.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Bouncing between passions at the moment. Trying to figure my route, but I just need to go for the gusto. I started a media production company with a talented friend of mine last year and have been producing and writing here and there. But it is not enough to sustain this lavish eating daily, using a cell phone and having a roof over my head lifestyle I must maintain. So I put in my 40 hours a week at everyones favorite Whole Foods Market... I love paying bills!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
jeopardy, volleyball(not very) blowing(very) and chewbacca's wookie noise.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I could not tell you. Really I can't. Maybe you can tell me? Too generic of an answer for this online dating thing? To most, I think I can be seen as distant, quiet or aloof. But once warmed up to one another people either love me or can't stand me. Thankfully it is usually the former.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
food. anything spicy or green. I try to avoid the sweets.

music. indy hip hop & classic rock. I really love old school soul, funk and R&B, think MoTown. I have the musical proclivity of an old black woman.

shows. I have a few I try to follow but it gets hard, thank goodness for Hulu.

movies. comedy and scifi are my favorites. I can go for most anything but I can't watch anything twice.

books. by Zadie Smith, Neil Gaiman or Terry Pratchett but I am mostly a comic book nerd...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family.

my ears (not that they're aesthetically spectacular, i just like to hear things when they're coming.)


something to laugh about.


and lastly sriracha, if you don't know what it is, you're missing out, i put it on everything.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
deciding what I want to eat takes me forever for some reason. people I have not seen or talked to in a while.
metaphors to explain many things for my not so smart co workers
weird or impossible to answer "would you rather..." questions
why and how. sometimes where and when. rarely who and what
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends painting things red. it's about the only night I can stay up and go out too late.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i was born with a tail
You should message me if
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you like to laugh and put a high importance on fun.
if you hate the two things above, because really they are a corny reason to message me.
if you're kind of weird but not too weird, like Adams Family or Brady Bunch weird... actually Adams Family is ok.
you think we would get along or don't and want to fight.