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AlphaCreative

49 / M / straight / Single

Kirkland, Washington

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
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Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
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Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
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Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Kids
—
Pets
—
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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I am creative, intelligent, and witty.

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My Self-Summary

Alphamale yet creative, funny, witty and intelligent. Great writer and romantic who is highly energized but NOT self-centered. I'm interested in a ton of different events, objects, and concepts. Guaranteed that you'll laugh and have fun!

What I’m doing with my life

Writer, blogger, poet/creative writer and consultant, primarily writing web content about interesting places, people, eats, cultural items, plus writing romantic poetry and performance grants. Doing A LOT (two words) of business consulting in the areas of marketing, curriculum development / training (currently consulting for Xbox ssshhhhh!) and communications (it's how I pay the bills!)(and yes, I'm successful ... but I don't believe success is measured by the "stuff" you own). Also enjoying the Sounders (well, until last weekend) and my son's team (soccer)(which I coach)(my 17 year old son, not the Sounders!), discovering quirky places in the Puget Sound, and being creative in doing ... whatever!

I’m really good at

Listening and learning about you. Yes, I know -- very unusual for a guy. But, I assume that both you and what we're doing are interesting, so -- may as well find out about you/it/us/them.
I'm also really good at being positive, laughing (giving and receiving), carrying on conversations, and finding the positive in everything.
And my communication skills are excellent -- I'm a writer, trainer, and public speaker.

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile, high energy, engaging personality, wit, charm, humor, and humility, and attentiveness to them (that's YOU!)
Next, they discover that I'm kind, and I have a "great heart" (their words, not mine).
They'll learn that I'm a romantic, and that I believe in good.
Finally, they discover that I am a very caring person.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Currently liking "Brain Rules", also like mysteries and books that make me go "hmmm" or "Huh!". I like almost any movie EXCEPT post 1960s horror... it just depends on the mood.
Music is everything EXCEPT (you guessed it), Rap, although I LOVE soul, Motown, and classic rock. Love to Karaoke me some blue-eyed soul, Satchmo, and Elvis, as well as Billy Idol and the Ramones (I'd give 'em a 95 because it's got a good beat and I can dance to it!)
Food: Pretty much anything. NOT a big sushi fan, but will eat it. Prefer Thai, BBQ, Indian, and undiscovered little nooks with something unusual but not too weird. Prefer rice and pulled pork to steak.

The six things I could never do without

Words, either spoken or written.
My children, although they're (nearly) grown (youngest is 17).
Tenderness/kindness/affection.
Creativity.
Laughter.
Nature.
Other people. (I'm a writer. Who said I could count!)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My kids, my life, how to make other people happy, creativity (I write a lot), how to express feelings so other people read them and say "Yeah, that sounds like me", and where I should go next -- canoeing, walking in downtown, eating chocolate.

On a typical Friday night I am

This season, watching my 17 year old goalie son play soccer! Usually, with friends or someone who will be my friend or more, dancing, karaoke singing, looking, watching, doing, learning.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

5 years ago (divorce time), I was pretty beaten down. Now, I'm not, and I'm finding out it's DANG exciting to be me! If you find a more interesting, kinder guy on here who is a better communicator /writer AND more humorous -- it's my twin! Oh, yeah: I USED to have women say: "You're such a great guy -- I sooo want to be your FRIEND". I'm not focusing on "just being a friend". And, seriously, if you think about it... are you? I mean, if it happens, great. But I'm really looking for a woman who is interesting, who I can have a great time with and get to know, who is attractive, and who can keep up.

You should message me if

You're confident, a good communicator, interesting, diverse, in decent shape, attractive, and fun ... I don't want a leader. I don't want a follower. I want a partner.

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