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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here's some basics
Seeking activity partner... perhaps more?

And... because everyone seems to be asking, yes, i do have pics (if the type of relationship/play or friendship that I mention resonates with you, just ask, I can send you some)

Although I'm not opposed to poly, i dont do casual sex, nor do i wish to skip courtship.

And.... to be completely honest, i AM looking for true love.
oh, and as for the other basics:

i'm tall, fit, blue eyes
Outgoing, with all the necessary social skills and acumen,
...and have even been (on occasion) told i'm either (a) funny or (b) charming.

i'm add more details as i think of them, or until i feel i can no longer procrastinate doing so.

Addendum: And just to be perfectly clear, direct, and to let you now what I’m ultimately seeking….

yes, clearly I am kinky, and I do enjoy bdsm, and have a fetish or two.
And yes, I am open to dating someone who is poly, or who as other partners,
And although I am not bi, in the right circumstances, with the right people, I am open to dating/serving a couple as well.
...and yes again, to my being open to BDSM play partners if we have a D/s connection as well.

but, my ultimate goal is be in an ongoing relationship, to be in love with the partner that I am with.
you know, like married and all that sort of thing (with or without the paper).

Even though I am not seeking a traditional dating, and even though I’m open to dating poly people, what I am most comfortable with is something thats easy-going, fun, and less like “friends with benefits” and more like an actual girlfriend (where our interests and affection extends beyond just the bedroom).

So, if you ONLY want something shallow, passing, or with no desire to be open to something deeper, more connected, we’re probably not a (romantic) match.

If you still think we’d get along, but don’t want anything serious,
feel free to say hi anyway …if you want to create art together, work on photography projects, or just do things (as friends) around town with.

On a side note, I will admit that I would absolutely be open to a non-reciprocal oral service relationship too, so if thats your thing say hi, too.

Having said ALL that, and mentioned the specifics I have alluded to, most of all… finding a girlfriend, life-parter, perfect-for-me match, is probably the most important of all.

If thats there, then all the rest is secondary.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
entertainment biz, and real estate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This doesn't exactly match the heading, but this seemed like as good a place as any to put this:

To give a general idea, here's who I'd hope to meet:

- smart/intellectual friends to share kinky and non-kinky adventures with
- chemistry willing, a partner who was open to an on-going relationship, play and other kinky adventures.
- OM (orgasmic meditation) partners
- women who are open to a non-reciprocal oral service relationship.
- creative types to create, collaborate or inspire each other and make art with.

Most importantly...
I am NOT looking for hook-ups, DTF-types, or one-night stands, or sexual play if there is not passion and a connection between us.

and yes... even though i do enjoy being in a FLR, truth be told, (ideally) i'd love to be in a FLM.

So, if you’d like to say hi, see if we had chemistry (D/s and otherwise) or were just curious to know more, I welcome your reply.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
often I'll be at a kinky / fetish / bdsm event with friends, that I saw on the local fetlife events page.

although, i could just as easily be at a dinner party, dive, movie, camping, road trip, art gallery, mid-night hike, or netflixing with freinds (assuming they're binge watching the same shows that I am)

You should message me if
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you are familiar with what a FLR (female-led relationship) is.
...and, you desire (or curious about) having a devoted to you, submissive (based in friendship, passion, kink and perhaps even in time ....amoré).

you love chivalrous courtship, or (even better) if you like the "devotional sex" method of courtship.

you want a partner to OM (orgasmic meditation) with.

if youre just super fun, super adventurous, kink-friendly, or an artist wanting someone to create with.

or if you're just plain ole trouble with a capitol "T", feel free to say hi as well.