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40 • Edmonds, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 33–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 3:36pm
- 6′ 4″ (1.94m)
- Body type
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Has kids
- Has dogs
I have a career that I enjoy and have worked hard to cultivate. My wife, Lavaquest, is a wonderful companion, friend and partner. We are in a poly relationship and my wife's boyfriend, KinkyChef75, is a great friend to us both.
Ideally, I would like to meet someone new for exploration and adventure. In the meantime I'm having fun, loving life, enjoying the outdoors, working on home projects and spending time with my beautiful wife and daughters.
Podcast: Dan Savage, This American Life
Movies: Lost Horizon, 12 Angry Men, Good Will Hunting, Dogfight, 40 Year Old Virgin, Office Space, Clockwork Orange, Pulp Fiction, Deathproof, True Romance, Suicide Kings, That Thing You Do, Shawshank Redemption, Maginolia,
Music: Greatful Dead, Jerry Garcia Band, Ella Fitzgerald, Elton John, Lil Wayne, Eminem, Tim McGraw, Tracy Lawerance,
Def Leapord, The Cure, Doors, and of course Jimi Hendrix.
TV/Radio Shows: Modern Family, Dexter, Tosh.0, TED, This American Life, Breaking Bad, Glee,
I really like old school rap but also enjoy musical theater.
I really like vegetables but couldn't live without meat.
I really love movies and having conversations about what we liked/disliked but I also like hiking where I can enjoy with someone the silence and peacefulness of nature as we push our physical abilities to their limits.
Just a few to mention a few off the top of my head.
You like to hike, camp or need a running partner.
You are in an open relationship or at least understand what it entails and/or are ok with ethical non monogamy.
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