my, never was notified of all these comments. Someone misread my comment - i meant don't IM me if you are younger than 35 or older than 50. That is my age range that I chose. But they don't read your profile anyway so what does it matter. To be fair, a lot of women also complain that their messages are not returned as I have read in the forums. I think I also stated that even I have not gotten returns on MY messages to a lot of women here on OKC that I found interesting and wanted to chat with. I'm not necessarily talking about young women either.

What is with the older women here? I have seen so many threads where the older guys have complained that they message a woman and she looks at their profile and just ignores them and doesn't even bother to reply. I have talked to some of these guys in the forums or IM and they are good people, but the older women here don't even give them notice. What is it you older women ( 49-60+ ) are here for? I suppose if you put certain criteria in your profile that says ,like don't message me if you don't work or something and they do, that is one thing, but still you can say read my profile. There is no need for rudeness by not even replying. When I see on a profile "Message me if you want to know me more" or "If you like what you see" and they do, then WTH? At least have the courtesy to reply unless you are some stuck up bitch who is here in cougar capacity looking for a young kid to screw you. How pathetic.

come on people, you having distance shots and outside shots are nice, but they shouldn't be your primary photo. Your primary should be a nice head shot with you smiling and no freakin' hats or horns or anything obstructing the full view of your face - what is this eyes only crap some people have? If someone can't be bothered to provide a nice pic, I don't bother with them - a pic is 85% of the initial chemistry. Get with it!

What is with the men in here? Why can't they post some good pics of themselves? I don't wanna see their car, their house, their girlfriend, their profile view from their booking, their dogs, or anything else that is not them. I want to see what they look like and i won't even bother with someone who can't take the time to show themselves or hide.