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27 M Turku, Finland

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently), German (Okay), Swedish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Vanilla is dull and geeks are hot.
As a cynical idealist, I both want to save all mankind and set everything on fire, and as a technophile hippie, I am hooked to new gadgets, but hate it how much they use energy.
Politically, I'm left/green/liberal/evil socialist, with a dash of pirate.
I'm an ethical vegan, but I keep four companion animals to whom I feed animal products.
I'm in an open (poly) relationship with my primary foppish_kmh, and AndineA, and I'm the owner of lunacracker, and have other intimate relationships as well. I'm careful with words when it comes to people I connect with, and every relationship, be it of any nature, is completely unique.
My favourite philosopher is Jean-Paul Sartré.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a newbie freelance photographer, doing shoots when I get them and enjoying every second of it. I've done some poster designing, too, and wonder if I should pursue graphic design more seriously.

For some time now I've had this 'body project': an attempt to become strong and healthy and enjoy all sorts of physical activities. For a complete computer nerd, it's a challenge, but a welcome one. I like lifting, bouldering, running, swimming in open waters, and I should get back to doing a bit of ashtanga yoga every now and then.

Writing is another hobby of mine. I've participated in NaNoWriMo several times now for the challenge, and I've participated in scriptwriting with our theatre.

I also love drawing and sketching, primarily humans and humanoids.

When working with our theatre troupe I sing and play the clarinet (and a small selection of various instruments), and dabble in sound design, songwriting, arrangements and what-have-you.

My social circles have grown stealthily over these past few years, and I find myself spending a great deal of good times with friends and family.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
setting goals for myself. There is always room for improvement.

Most animals tend to like me. So... am I good at befriending animals, or is it a skill at all if I never practiced?

I enjoy debating and passionately discussing important and unimportant subjects. I am also a huge language geek and acquire new languages and systems of writing fairly easily.

I'm also really good at touching, and in telling if someone's lying or not.

Lacking any formal training, I can't say I'm really good at giving massages, but I'm definitely above average. :3
The first things people usually notice about me
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People tell me I smell nice. A lot. Almost every time I hug someone. Also my deep, warm voice that doesn't quite match my young face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm always one bookshelf short. Reading mostly non-fiction on various subjects; additionally, fantasy, science fiction (very little of it so far!), and miscellaneous short stories. And some comics, graphic novels, and manga.

I love films. Watching wuxia, anime and other animated films, documentaries, anything queer-themed, western (especially Italian), alternative universes, sci-fi, fantasy... With TV, I'm particularly into satire, political or otherwise.

Music to me equals both business and pleasure. I'm a classically trained clarinetist (adequate, not brilliant), but I'm also working as a theatre musician, playing mostly contemporary stuff. Listening to metal (industrial, folk, black, melodic, power, symphonic, alternative, melodic death); folk (Irish, Finnish, Norwegian, Mongolian, Japanese); instrumental (renaissance, baroque, classical, romantic era, impressionist); motion picture soundtracks; house, trance, gothic, EBM, new wave, alternative, etc.

I'm also a gamer geek. Seems like there aren't many things I couldn't geek about. My favourite games tend to be RPGs, but I'm also partial to complex strategy and puzzles. I'm very much into storytelling and character customisation, and a complete sucker for beautiful, interesting visuals. (Platforms: PS3, XBox 360, Nintendo DS, PC)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Don't know what I'd actually get by without. Things that have proven very important to me in my daily life include some sort of physical activities, creativity, close friends and family members, cats, information, and the last ounce of sanity left in me. Internet, books, music, films, games, tea, work, hobbies—plenty of stuff is either important or just life-improving.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out jogging, if the weather isn't horrible, or bouldering indoors if I haven't injured my hand. Alternatively, playing video games or surfing the net, or working on some photos. I might also be entertaining a guest of two, or visiting friends, or even out drinking (soda).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Already said I'm polyamorous, right? I might add there's a negotiated hierarchy in my relationships, and I'm personally not into multiple life partners, preferring a slightly less committed approach. I confess I have commitment issues, and I wear them on my sleeve.

My gender doesn't fit the binary, and I'm pansexual and a dom/ Master/ sadist/ kinky bastard. (Show me your FetLife profile and I'll show you mine.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you fancy me, of course.

... you took a test I wrote and wish to know the right answers.

... you feel like discussing/debating something. Anything, really. I know this doesn't sound like an invitation, but I really mean it.

... you've met me IRL and want to say hi.

Don't be afraid. I don't bite. Wait, that was a lie, and a very obvious one at that.

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