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28 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:03pm
Asian, Pacific Islander
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Don't be fooled, this long haired hippy lookin' guy ain't your average Asian.

Now that that's off my chest, how are you? Scary question, eh? Not too many fellows round' these parts seem to want to actually talk or heaven knows... meet in person. Me: I'm a straight forward guy who has a full plate... but is always looking for the main course, a special guy to grow old with.

I'm not everyone's cup' of tea, and I certainly do not expect to be.
What I’m doing with my life
Easy going Cert medical assist here and part time student. Work hard but take time to relax and let go for a bit at a time. I play the hurdy gurdy in a newly forming folk and symphonic metal band and will stride out to a park or field to play when I can. Recently, I've been getting back into free running and parkour.

Im Stokely
I’m really good at
My job. I'd like to think that I'm a fairly keen listener and have been told that I make a great footstool (see height). Oh, and headbanging. And runway walking. And taking a shot at whatever comes my way. Jump in boots first!
The first things people usually notice about me
Recently someone thought I was Steve Aoki from the back... *sigh* ok, not all Asian guys with long hair are Steve...

My grin... and the hair. Yeah, its long... but hey, to each his own. And no, I won't cut it for you. I'm a short lil' cub and like it that way. People have told me I have a nice chest and a great arse' which I won't deny. I kinda like my bum.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Victor Hugo, Alexandre Dumas, Robert Bloch, Charles Bukowski, Peter Benchley.... Les' Miserables, The Phantom of the Opera, Jaws, Psycho, Battle Royale (there is a bunch more).

Film: Foreign to Horror, my standouts: Psycho, Jaws, The Haunting, The Birds, Blood and Black Lace, Ravenous, Battle Royale, Romy and Michele's High School Reunion, Breakfast at Tiffanys (Again, there is a bunch more)

Music: Ranges from Classical to Heavy metal. Standouts are: Nightwish, Epica, Within Temptation, Tarot, Kamelot, Eluveitie, Sonata Arctica, I am Ghost, Amaranthe, Hooverphonic, Apocalyptica... artists would be Marco Heitala, Tuomos Holopainen, Tarja Turunen, Tony Kaako Sarah Brightman... (the list goes on). I also have a love for Mattias Loibner.

Food: Traditional Japanese especially sushi, Chinese, Italian... my favorite dish is a blackened chicken Caesar salad.
The six things I could never do without
My family, my hurdy gurdy, my mind, a good pair of boots, laughter, hydration.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm a hopeless romantic, so yep, I think about relationships.

Music and pieces I'm currently working on. Medical stuff with work but I try to not dwell on this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working on a long day but usually relaxing afterward.
All my friends know I'm usually at Charlies on Broadway where I relax. Trashy and tragic as it may seem, to each his own.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a proud longhair, adore hurdy gurdy headbanging, and trudging through snow in my sturdy boots and a kilt. And I generate heat (private tea kettle here).
I chose more than one private thing. Cause I'm like that. Choke on it. :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like what you've read, want to play music, or go out to dinner.
Unfortunately, I have become very picky... so if you message me and I politely tell you that I'm not interested, don't be a dick.
I politely ask that you don't message me to just tell me to cut my hair, shave my beard, play the guitar, or stop being so Asian (Yes, this has happened).
On a positive note, beards, boots, kilts, metal heads, rockers, and longhairs: I'm yours. I do have a soft spot for cute guys with gauged ears... dunno why.