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35 M Los Angeles, CA

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
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Mostly anything
Working on university
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
A curious thing happens when you combine a passion for exploration, an almost reckless willingness to try new experiences, a libertine panache, and the tenacity of a honey badger.
That curious thing is me.

There's a special lady in my life that fulfills all of my emotional needs - "Taifoon" on this site, if you want to see an amazing woman's profile. We're openly non-monogamous; we each date other people, sometimes together. So if you want to win my heart, I'm afraid it's already been won. But there are so many other parts left to go 'round...

I peaked late in life, and I couldn't be happier for it. I'm in control of my future, in the best shape I've ever been in, am learning more about life and people every day, and am continually finding new and better ways to enjoy myself. Not to mention improve myself.

Soften your heart, sharpen your wit, strengthen your body, expand your horizons, open your mind.

I've not yet been fully intimate with a man, but I think that will be changing soon.
I'm naturally a pleaser in the sac, but I've been learning to take control and am getting a taste for being dom.
If you'd like to help either of those along, do drop me a line. But make it a good one ;)

You may not believe me (I don't really believe it myself), but I've been told multiple times that I'm the kindest person that someone has ever gone out with.

I'm honest like a fox, curious about everything, and am a big-time cuddler.
What I’m doing with my life
I try to leave every conversation better than I found it.
I try to find what people think are their shortcomings, and show them that there's nothing falling short at all.
I try to create unforgettable moments.

Meanwhile, I let my quiet intensity burn away as many projects as it can. I'm learning a few languages, training for a marathon, finishing my novel, and going to school full time.

Though lately, I have to admit that fascinations with sex, drugs, and rock and roll have been taking up a lot of my time!
I’m really good at
Finding new ways to pleasure my partners.
Listening sincerely.
Respecting limits. Pushing them.
Massages - seriously.
Applying liquid latex.
Making my own fun.
Saying yes.
Dancing 'til 5.
Witty banter.
Incomplete sentences.
The first things people usually notice about me
When we meet in person you'll likely first note my calm and relaxed manner of easy-going acceptance. I maintain this state of being even during the dirtiest of shit-storms.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really don't think this section has much importance. I think we all have enough overlap to share interests and enough tolerance to withstand our partners' tastes. That said, I will put an inordinate amount of effort into this section anyway.

I have quite the (literal) book list. I made my way through the sci-fi classics, and am now making my way through English classics, but I tend to alternate fiction and non-fiction.
Gibson, Herbert, Stephenson, Gaiman, King, Koontz, Palahniuk, Vonnegut...

I enjoy movies with:
Powerful performances: Hard Candy, Million Dollar baby, The Notebook, Schindler's List
A creative/cult bend: Rocky Horror, May, Serial Mom, Dark City, Cabin in the Woods, Princess Bride
Hilarity: Knocked Up, The Heat, Man Who Knew Too Little, Date Night, The Bird Cage, My Cousin Vinny
Martial Arts: Fist Of Legend, Who Am I, Ip Man
Strong Visuals: Hero, 300, Sucker Punch
Science Fiction: Terminator, Aliens, 13th Floor, Source Code
Fantasy: Underworld, Legend, LOTR, Mad Max (is that fantasy? It's kind of *my* fantasy...)
Thrills and Good Horror: Saw, The Bone Collector, Mimic, Wes Craven's New Nightmare, The Others, Copycat, The Ring, High Tension.
Action and/or super heroes: The Dark Knight, The Incredible Hulk, Iron Man, Bourne movies, Watchmen, Bond movies, No Country for Old Men, Gladiator.
And ideally movies that have multiple of these: The Matrix, LA Confidential, Galaxy Quest, Snatch, Ink, Looper, Inception, Equilibrium, Perfume, Memento.

Half-Life, Braid, Uncharted, Machinarium, Abe's Odyssey, Starcraft, World of Goo, Bioshock, God of War, Resident Evil (early games), Dishonored, Tetris, Rampart, Infamous, Call of Duty.

I like to mix it up quite a bit. One morning the other day, I think I played:
Soilbleed (Agonoize Remix) - Grendel
Logic - Sisters of Mercy
Anvil Chorus - Tchaikovsky
Anthem (remix) - FGFC820
Joline - Dolly Parton
Dona e mobile - Pavarotti
Sumpin New - Coolio
Girls on Film - Duran Duran
Doesn't Really Matter - Platinum Blonde
Living on Video - TransX
and so on...
When I go dancing, though, it's usually to industrial, aggrotech, synthpop, etc.

Lots. All of it.
Healthy is good, but so is tasty!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Interactive narrative and new forms of storytelling, linguistics and etymology, game-ification, robots, consciousness, implications of advancing technology, algorithms and AI, transhumanism, open relationships, naked people, how to best shrug off cultural norms that I disagree with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually this is couch cuddle movie night. Sometimes it's going out to Das Bunker. Sometimes there's a special event like a concert, art walk, or movie premiere.
Fridays are not a special night for me. Every night is Friday!
Shit, does that mean every morning is Monday? Dammit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was a child, I had a crush on Punky Brewster. Later, in high school, I would have a girlfriend who once punched Punky Brewster.
Cosmic ...
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 24–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You don't mind me having a girlfriend (she doesn't mind you!). Note that this means my weekends are generally booked, and with some evening classes my schedule gets pretty tight. Be cool with that and don't take it personally.

You're confident that you can show me a thing or two. Or you're at least excited and eager to try.

You've got serious potential but don't want anything serious. Yes, part of what I'm looking for is casual sex, but that doesn't mean random hook-ups.

You're a ggg unicorn.

You're comfortable with meeting someone new without any expectations. I've met both friends and lovers on this site, and sometimes you don't know which role is best until you lock eyes and share words.