I'm actually heteroflexible, but that was not an option.
I loathe typing to get to know someone new. Sorry, I really don't want to e-mail/msg/text for long. Sooooo much gets lost or misunderstood in text. I just don't have the time or endurance these days... plus for me, I know that I don't get to actually know anyone in text, nor do they get to know me. Five mins on the phone goes a long ways, opposed to hours of messaging back and forth.