I am a fairly active person. I am always up for a hike, going swimming, playing frolf. You're also fairly likely to find me in a coffee shop playing chess, pool, or some other game.
I guess if I have one requirement for a friend / significant other it would be character. I have found that being a unique individual has less to do with fashion, or trends, or momentary projected confidence then it has to do with a knowledge and acceptance of who you are. Which is to say the basis of character. If people would just stop trying to be "someone different" and just be Someone (which is to say develop depth) I think they would succeed at being Unique.
Hope this helped.
I am independent, active, and cynically optimistic