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My self-summary
I live with my primary partner and husband, XCountryDavid, with whom I am polyamorous, and in a D/s relationship. I am a housewife, and a gamer. I am pacifist, secular humanist, socially liberal, intersectional feminist, introverted and sometimes extroverted, unapologetically antitheist, biromantic, bisexual, phallosexual, graysexual, demisexual, and nerdy. I vie for peace and balance in my life, and I seek a state of being of pure love.

I am not interested in casual sex, nor in fulfilling your fantasy of being with a trans woman.

I have been a gamer since I was little, playing Atari, then Nintendo and tabletop war games and role playing games, and I have continued this trend throughout my life. I am currently obsessed with Elder Scrolls Online, and eager for Fallout 4.

I have gone through many changes in recent years, and am still evolving. I am a former movie nerd and former avid reader, and I'm not sure where I'll end up with regards to movies and reading :/ Additionally, I used to be an intellectual, and I don't think that's true anymore, though I enjoy learning and evolving, as a human being, socially and emotionally, and can still enjoy a good intellectual discussion.

I used to be exceptionally fit and athletic, and enjoyed the outdoors, thought not camping, and I desire to get fit again, and spend time engaging in outdoor activities, such as bike riding, some hiking, swimming, canoeing, and I'd like to find someone to take up tennis with me. Also, I'd very much like to find a dance partner, someone who can teach me, or take lessons with me. I would also love to find a PS4/Elder Scrolls Online partner.

Most of my activism these days is done online, having become a little burnt out, due, in part, to being introverted, and desiring peace and tranquility in my life, which I find difficult to maintain, while engaging in forms of activism that require my physical presence. Though introverted, I enjoy time spent with romantic partners, and I can be outgoing at times, though I deal with mild agoraphobia and fluctuating levels of social anxiety.

When I say that I am antitheist, I am not being totally accurate, for lack of an accurate word or short description. Not only do I know that religion and delusions of divinity cause great harm to society and individuals, I also have no patience for talk of karma, luck, magic, fairies, ghosts, etc, so don't talk to me about these delusions, for you will not like my response. Delusional Disorder is a mental illness, which describes such beliefs, and yet we are expected to treat such absurdities and delusions as respectable opinions. I don't do that.

If you've gotten this far, know that I am interested in making new friends, as well as developing new romantic relationships. I am quite kinky, however, I do not expect you to be, nor do I expect or hope for you to be interested in BDSM, though if you are, cool beans.

In kink, I am primarily a brat type submissive, though I am also into ageplay, and I enjoy the Mommy role sometimes, though strictly nurturing. I enjoy receiving bondage, especially shibari rope bondage, especially when done with hemp or jute rope. My kinks and kinky interests are many and varied. I am sensual and affectionate, and I like to cuddle, and if you don't like that, don't message me, I'm not interested in emotionally distant intimate partners.

I have a lot of time on my hands, and though I am happy with my husband, and feel no urgency to acquire more partners, I have much to give, and I am interested in finding partners who can help me evolve as a human being, whether through fun, kink, or intellectual stimulation, or combinations thereof; the experiences to be had, and mutual sharing of self.

If you message me, I will respond.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning, Day-Dreaming, and Evolving.
I’m really good at
Helping others, playing video games.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sweetness and compassion, my intelligence, and how tall I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

The Original Shannara Trilogy.
Assorted fantasy, sci-fi, suspense, classic literature, murder mystery, horror, and espionage, and more. Ask me for specifics.


Legend(most favorite), What Dreams May Come, The Last Samurai, Mr. Frost, Star Wars 4-6, Serenity, The Matrix, The Dark Crystal, The Neverending Story, The Princess Bride, Grosse Pointe Blank, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, Rosenkrantz And Gildenstern Are Dead, Monty Python, Big Trouble In Little China, Dark City, and many more.


Currently- The Walking Dead, The Blacklist, Sherlock, Luther, Agents of Shield, Arrow, Daredevil, Blindspot.

Past Faves- Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Lie To Me, The Practice, Boston Legal, Angel, Stargate SG-1, Firefly, The Mentalist, House, Criminal Minds, Mad About You, Beauty and the Beast(80's), Heroes.


Lisa Gerrard/Dead Can Dance, Loreena Mckennitt, Enigma, Enya, Clannad, Tangerine Dream, Garbage, Elizabeth Lorrey, Tori Amos, Poe, Tears For Fears, Nine Inch Nails(older stuff), Rob Dougan, Salvatore Geloso.

I also like Assorted Industrial, Punk Rock, Post Punk, Goth Rock, Cold Wave, Classic Rock, 80's, Metal, Death Metal, Doom Metal, Prog Metal, Speed Metal, Thrash Metal, Hardcore, Alt Rock, Shock Rock, Movie and Game Soundtracks, Swing, Jazz, Blues, Bluegrass, Folk, Classical, Contemporary Orchestral, and even some Top 40 stuff.

Ask me for specifics.


My Husband's Stroganoff, Pilaf, Cottage Pie, My Husband's Chicken Dinner, My Dad's Tacos, My Own Pasta Dinner, My Own Rice Dish, Meatball Subs, Hamburgers, Pasta Salad, Chocolate.


Tabletop RPG's- L5R, D&D, TMNT, Heroes Unlimited, Star Wars, Pathfinder.

Board and Tabletop War Games- Ghost Stories, Scrabble, Axis & Allies(Milton Bradley Edition), Stratego, Advanced Heroquest(Don't Play Anymore), Bloodbowl(Don't Play Anymore), Battletech(Don't Play Anymore), Warhammer Fantasy Battle :'(

Card Game- Munchkin.

Video Games- Elder Scrolls Online, Skyrim, Fallout 3 and New Vegas, Borderlands Series, Diablo III: Reaper of Souls, Romance of the Three Kingdoms 8, Final Fantasy 1, 4, 6, 12, and Tactics, X-COM: UFO Defense, Master of Magic, Neverwinter Nights, Assorted Tecmo Koei games, and more.
The six things I could never do without
My Wonderful Husband
A Safe Home
Our Two Dogs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Get to know me to find out.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have an active profile on Fetlife.

Get to know me if you want to know more.
You should message me if
You find me interesting, and think we might become romantic partners, or friends.