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36 F Colchester, VT

My Details

Last Online
Jul 28
Native American, White
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am not interested in casual sex, nor in long-distance relationships, and if you don't read my profile and have something more to say than, "Hi sexy.", "Hey beautiful.", or similarly uninspired greetings, then pass me by.

I am polyamorous and living with my fiance, XCountryDavid, with whom I am happy and content. I am also polyamorous with scale_amiss, and a woman who is not on okcupid. I also have a lover, and a number of BDSM play partners.

I am pacifist, secular humanist, feminist, social, unabashedly anti-theist, socially liberal, poetic, pansexual, kinky, and nerdy. I vie for peace and balance in my life, and I seek a state of being of pure love, compassion, and reason, with which I vie to combat hate, bigotry, and wilful ignorance.

I don't pay for A-List, so I won't be able to see who likes me, so if you like me, and/or want to ask me questions, please, message me.

I may add more later.
I’m really good at
Helping and caring for people, understanding, communicating, writing, and stealing your cat's affections =^.^=
The first things people usually notice about me
My sweetness and compassion, and how tall I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Assorted fantasy novels by Terry Brooks, R.A. Salvatore, Stephen R. Donaldson, Troy Denning, Margaret Weis & Tracy Hickman, Mercedes Lackey, Robert E. Howard and the continued stories of Conan by various authors, J.R.R. Tolkien, and more, as well as assorted Warhammer Fantasy novels. Assorted Star Wars novels, James Patterson, Robert Ludlum, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, and H.P. Lovecraft. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, She's Not There by Jennifer Finney Boylan, Go Rin No Sho by Miyamoto Musashi, Romance of the Three Kingdoms by Luo Guanzhong and more...


Legend(most favorite), What Dreams May Come, The Last Samurai, Mr. Frost, Star Wars 4-6, Serenity, The Matrix, The 13th Warrior, The Dark Crystal, The Neverending Story, The Princess Bride, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, Rosenkrantz And Gildenstern Are Dead, The Prestige, Monty Python, Labyrinth, Big Trouble In Little China, The Dark Knight, Inception, City Of Angels, Silverado, The Last Of The Mohicans, Dark City, Enough Said, Soldier's Girl, End Of Watch, Knight And Day, Blazing Saddles, Burn After Reading, See No Evil Hear No Evil, Kung Fu Hustle, Ninja Scroll, and many more...I am a movie nerd :)


The Practice, Boston Legal, Sherlock, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Farscape, Stargate SG-1, Firefly, Angel, Criminal Minds, L&O: SVU, Bleep My Dad Says, Raising Hope, The Mentalist, Lie To Me, Golden Girls, Designing Women, House, My Little Pony, Columbo, L&O: CI, CSI, Hell On Wheels, Chuck, Justified, Hit & Miss, Fullmetal Alchemist, Guin Saga, Luther, Game Of Thrones, and more...


Lisa Gerrard/Dead Can Dance, Carly Simon, Garbage, Elizabeth Lorrey, Tori Amos, Poe, Tears For Fears, Nine Inch Nails(older stuff), Rob Dougan, Salvatore Geloso, Kat Wright and the Indomitable Soul Band, Eric George, Benny Goodman, Hans Zimmer, Max Richter, Clint Mansell, Jerry Goldsmith, John Williams, Arcana, Yanni, Massive Attack, The Cure, Sisters Of Mercy, Concrete Blonde, Attrition(older stuff),The Gossip, Video Game Music, Christina Perri, Lindsay Stirling, Wumpscut, Ministry, Skinny Puppy, Primus, Nirvana, Slayer, Marilyn Manson(up through Mechanical Animals), Metallica(pre-Load), The Buzzcocks, NOFX, Life Of Agony, Type O Negative, The Damned, The Bauhaus, Pink Floyd(Roger Waters), Led Zeppelin, The Doors, Assorted 80's, Multiple Movie Soundtracks, and many more, my tastes are quite eclectic.


Bacon, Bacon Burger, Garlic Bagel With Cream Cheese, Rice Pilaf, My Own Nameless Pasta Dish, My Own Nameless Sub Sandwich, My Own Nameless Rice Dish, Cottage Pie, My Fiance's Chicken Dinner, McDonald's French Fries, Radio Bean French Fries, Honey Barbeque Boneless Wings at Applebees, My Dad's Tacos, Bacon & Pepperoni Pizza with almost no cheese from Dominos :p


Tabletop RPG's: Legend Of The Five Rings(1st & 4th ed), Star Wars(2nd & 3rd ed), Dungeons & Dragons(3rd ed), Heroes Unlimited, TMNT.

Board Games: Ghost Stories, Stratego, Scrabble.

Card Games: Munchkin, Cards Against Humanity.

Video Games: Fallout 3(PS3), Romance Of The Three Kingdoms 8(PS2), Shadow Of The Colossus(PS2), Star Wars: Battlefront II(PS2), Final Fantasy Tactics(PS1), Suikoden 1&2 (PS1), Tekken 3 (PS1), Command & Conquer(PS1), Star Craft(PC), Final Fantasy 6(SNES), Super Street Fighter II: New Challengers(SNES), Master Of Magic(PC), Wolfenstein 3D(PC), Tetris (Gameboy), Rampage(Arcade), Super Offroad(Arcade), Final Fantasy(NES), The Legend Of Zelda(NES), Shadowgate(NES), Moon Patrol(Atari)
The six things I could never do without
My Wonderful Fiance
Our Two Dogs
My Smartphone/Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to forge a stronger community. Kink/BDSM, My Identity, Love, Life, Sex, Gender, Behavior, How to help Transgender Women; My Amazing, Joyful, and Wondrous Relationship with my Beloved Fiance.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home, watching a movie with my fiance.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
The fact that I'm a transsexual doesn't influence your decision one way or the other, and you are interested in dating or friendship.

You have read my profile and have something more to say than "Hello beautiful :)", "Hi sexy ;)", or "Hi, how are you?" Yes, I'm being redundant :p

You are not religious.

You are dominant, and experienced in BDSM, though this is not a requirement, vanilla and non-dominant people are welcome too :)