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25 Chatham, NJ Transmasculine, Trans Man, Man

Transmasculine, Trans Man, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 26
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Not at all
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Pretty-boy transgender man, looking for people of all persuasions to talk with, have fun and make memories with. I'm queer as all hell, a bit of a kinkster (learning more each day), and poly as hell (monoamory is great for some, but not for this boy). I tend to be attracted primarily to fellow transgender people, be they trans masculine, trans feminine, or non-binary, as well as cis-women. I am open to exploring the potential with cis men, but admittedly the cards are a tad stacked against that prospect.

In terms of orientation I am a demi-romantic queer. I'm not against having 'meaningless' sex outside of a relationship with pretty much anyone that strikes my fancy and is also interested in me (although I would argue that every encounter has meaning to it), but it takes a lot more for me to start developing romantic feeling and a desire for what would be considered a traditional romantic relationship.

I am resolutely sober, so if you expect or pressure me to imbibe, you can just go on your merry way. I'm not opposed to going to a bar, but if you have anything against my permanent DD status, there is going to be a problem.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making pizza 45-60 hours a week between two fun and fulfilling jobs. I love food, and love making people happy by making them tasty and fun food. As a result, I don't have much free time, but definitely want to make it count.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Making pizza
-Remembering to text/message back
-Having 'horrible' taste in music (I know nothing about music and am fine with that)
-Reading YA Fantasy novels in one sitting
-Failing to finish TV series
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-Fashion style (when I am dressed fully dapper)
-Voice, if they catch me singing
-The fact that I look like a 17 year old boy (I counted that as a compliment)

How about you tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've got too many favorites in each category, so going to list the first three that come to mind for each.

Books: MIddlesex, Spindle's End, Gender Failure

Movies: MIllenium Actress, Into The Woods, Much Ado About Nothing

Musical Artists: Idina Menzel, Nicki Minaj, Britney Spears

Food: Sushi, Steak, Slow smoked barbeque

Games: Dominion, Magic the Gathering, and Carcassonne

Pizza Toppings: MIke's Hot Honey, Ricotta, and Pancetta
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food
My journal and pen
The Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wondering why the hell guys think a one word message is going to be responded to.

How long it is going to take before I too can start using douchey shirtless pics on dating sites/apps.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making pizza in front of a hot oven and making people's nights better by the addition of yummy food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My favorite way to relax is by taking a nice hot bath with a floral smelling bubble bath. Or maybe a Lush Bath Bomb.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Be like Nike: Just Do It. But really go for it, a one or two word message isn't going to garner much of a response from me unless I find you extremely attractive. But if you give a decent effort at conversation, I'll usually play ball.

I also do take perverse pleasure in harassing straight cis men who stumble upon my profile and message me, acting like my (assumed) anatomy determine my gender.