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23 F Chatham, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
A genderqueer gentleman in a woman's skin, living life to the fullest. Passionate lover of knowledge and health, seeking to transform myself and the world around me into their best forms. Hates femininity in hirself, but definitely not in others.

I am addicted to the gym and weightlifting, as I am of the belief that being strong is any persons sexiest attribute. Knowledge is power, and I want to know it all. Bookworm and jock, it is possible, if I am any specimen.
What I’m doing with my life
Professional student, aspiring powerlifter. Trying my best to live every day to the absolute fullest, because I don't want to die at 25 but be buried at 75.

I am studying nutrition and chemistry, because I want to help people live healthier lives. I am also pursuing a personal training certification to that end.

I am also trying to be strong as hell. Currently have a 180 lb squat, 95 lb bench, and 280 lb deadlift to my name.
I’m really good at
- Picking things up and putting them down
-Giving hugs
-Making killer chocolate chip cookies
-Making snarky comments about movies
The first things people usually notice about me
My debonair charm, quick wit, and genteel manners. I'm a gentleman at heart and in action.

In the gym, people often notice me for picking heavy things up (often with a growl or a grunt) and then putting them back down.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite book of all time has to be The Windup Girl by Paolo Bacigalupi, closely followed by Pillars of the Earth by Ken Follett. I love dystopian literature, as well as YA fantasy with strong female protagonists such as those written by Tamora Pierce and Robin McKinley.

When it comes to movies, I'm a sucker for anything Studio Ghibli. As for live action... If it has a good story and is not super violent, I will likely enjoy it. I hate horror films, they give me way too many nightmares.

I don't watch much TV, but I do love Orange is the New Black.

I like food, a lot. Especially sushi. I am game to try anything when it comes to food however, and love checking out new restaurants and trying new foods. I am also a beer geek, even though I can't drink as of late.
The six things I could never do without
Besides the obvious:

Family and friends (always willing to add more to the collection!)
The gym
Good beer
Obnoxious pop and rap music
My computer
Fashionable clothing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Figuring out where the hell am I in the gender binary. Planning out my training for powerlifting. Questioning just what do I want to do with my life now that I'm nearly done with undergrad.
On a typical Friday night I am
Training at the gym, doing homework, or hanging with friends at Starbucks. Of course I am always willing to change plans...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am for the most part an open book, so not much to hide.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 18–27
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you are interested in a gentleman who will treat you like a lady, love to cuddle, and have interests in the arts, science, and living a healthy rewarding life.

Also message if the idea of a platonic cuddle buddy sounds appealing to you. Either that or a swolemate.

Hell, even if you just feel like chatting.