TheGentandRogue
25 Chatham, NJ
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My self-summary
Pretty-boy transgender man, looking for people of all persuasions to talk with, have fun and make memories with. In that awkward place between college and real life (whatever that is), and trying to sort myself out quite a bit.

Looking for folks to talk with and socialize with, as well as flirt and possibly get physical with. Not really looking for relationships outside of friendship and hookups for the time being.

I am in recovery, so while I am not opposed to bars, they aren't my first choice for places to meet up. I'm more of a coffee guy anyhow.

I am not able to see if you like my profile, so if you are *really* interested in talking with me, just message me and we can see what happens.
What I’m doing with my life
Living my best possible life. Working part time at a job I love making delicious food, and spending the rest of my time tending to my self care, establishing more long term goals, and getting my medical transition underway.

In my free time, I like to read and write, as well as lift weights. A few years ago I used to compete in powerlifting, my goal is to get back to that.
I’m really good at
-Making pizza
-Remembering to text/message back
-Having 'horrible' taste in music (I know nothing about music and am fine with that)
-Reading YA Fantasy novels in one sitting
-Failing to finish TV series
-listening to people
-picking things up and putting them down
The first things people usually notice about me
-Fashion style (when I am dressed fully dapper)
-Voice, if they catch me singing
-The fact that I look like a 17 year old boy (I counted that as a compliment)

How about you tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've got too many favorites in each category, so going to list the first three that come to mind for each.

Books: MIddlesex, Spindle's End, Gender Failure

Movies: MIllenium Actress, Into The Woods, Much Ado About Nothing

Musical Artists: Idina Menzel, Nicki Minaj, Britney Spears

Food: Sushi, Steak, Slow smoked barbeque

Games: Dominion, Magic the Gathering, and Carcassonne

Pizza Toppings: MIke's Hot Honey, Ricotta, and Pancetta
The six things I could never do without
Good food
My journal and pen
Headphones
Birds
Caffeine
The Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How long it is going to take before I too can start using douchey shirtless pics on dating sites/apps.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually going to a meeting, and then working out after work. My 'weekend' is Monday - Wednesday, so Friday is a work night in my book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Most private things I'm willing to publicly admit... 1. I'm transgender, 2. I am slowly becoming involved in the local kink community, 3. I am in recovery for addiction, as well as mental health concerns, 4. I am not a fan of either Star Wars or Star Trek.
You should message me if
Better question is why shouldn't you?

If you really want to talk to me, go for it. I refuse to pay for add on services, so I won't be able to see if you like my profile!

I am not opposed to the idea of talking to folks of any gender identity or sexual orientation. However, I do tend to have a preference for cis and trans women, and fellow members of the trans community over cis men. I have had too many shitty experiences with cis guys at this point to grant much more than a tiny shred of the benefit of the doubt.

IF YOU MESSAGE ME IN SUCH A WAY THAT LEADS ME TO BELIEVE THAT YOU EITHER SEE ME AS A WOMAN OR THAT YOUR ONLY INTEREST IN ME IS DUE TO MY BEING TRANS, I WILL BLOCK AND REPORT YOU WITH NO REGRETS.
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