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25 Chatham, NJ Man, Transmasculine, Trans Man

Man, Transmasculine, Trans Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22-33
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:58pm
Pansexual, Queer
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Catholicism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Pretty-boy transgender man, looking for people of all persuasions to talk with, have fun and make memories with. In that awkward place between college and real life (whatever that is), and trying to sort myself out quite a bit.

Looking for folks to talk with and socialize with, as well as flirt and possibly get physical with. Not really looking for relationships outside of friendship and hookups for the time being.

I am in recovery, so while I am not opposed to bars, they aren't my first choice for places to meet up. I'm more of a coffee guy anyhow.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In the process of figuring myself out so I can get my life on to a good track. Figuring out what my goals, priorities, and options are so I can start moving forward.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Making pizza
-Remembering to text/message back
-Having 'horrible' taste in music (I know nothing about music and am fine with that)
-Reading YA Fantasy novels in one sitting
-Failing to finish TV series
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-Fashion style (when I am dressed fully dapper)
-Voice, if they catch me singing
-The fact that I look like a 17 year old boy (I counted that as a compliment)

How about you tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've got too many favorites in each category, so going to list the first three that come to mind for each.

Books: MIddlesex, Spindle's End, Gender Failure

Movies: MIllenium Actress, Into The Woods, Much Ado About Nothing

Musical Artists: Idina Menzel, Nicki Minaj, Britney Spears

Food: Sushi, Steak, Slow smoked barbeque

Games: Dominion, Magic the Gathering, and Carcassonne

Pizza Toppings: MIke's Hot Honey, Ricotta, and Pancetta
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food
My journal and pen
The Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How long it is going to take before I too can start using douchey shirtless pics on dating sites/apps.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No such thing as typical, ideally.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Currently in treatment for depression and anxiety on a fairly extensive basis, which is my main occupation at this point in time.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Better question is why shouldn't you?

If you really want to talk to me, go for it. I refuse to pay for add on services, so I won't be able to see if you like my profile!

I will admit, I tend to be a bit suspicious of cisgender heterosexual men on dating sites because I have had enough experiences with men of the demographic where they completely disregard my gender due to the fact that I am transgender.