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24 Chatham, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:44pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Trying to quit
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Queer as all hell, primarily love ladies. I don't have a type, as long as there is a connection of some sort, I'll likely be interested. Chemistry never hurt either.

My current interests have been in expanding my knowledge of queer and gender theory, as well as reading more contemporary lit, which had turned into YA novels with female protagonists and love triangles aplenty.
What I’m doing with my life
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Slinging epic pizza by day, being a dapper gentleman by night. The first is a job, the second is a way of being.

I studied nutrition and chemistry, now trying to figure out what the hell I am going to do with that. I am at that awkward period of time between college and career where I am trying to get into said career, but in the meantime paying my dues in a just above minimum wage job. My second job is job hunting, as I am looking for opportunities in the hospitality industry.

I'm a competitive powerlifter, so I spend a lot of free time in the gym.
I’m really good at
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-Being charming and dapper
-Spending way too much of my disposable income on clothing
-Unintentionally sounding like a know-it-all
-Listening and giving advice
-(supposedly) giving hugs and cuddling
-picking things up and putting them down
The first things people usually notice about me
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-Fashion style (when I am dressed fully dapper)
-Voice, if they catch me singing

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite book of all time has to be The Windup Girl by Paolo Bacigalupi, closely followed by Pillars of the Earth by Ken Follett. I love dystopian literature, as well as YA fantasy with strong female protagonists such as those written by Tamora Pierce and Robin McKinley.

Gender Failure by Rae Spoon and Ivan Coyote should be required reading for pretty much everyone who doesn't 'get' the non-binary transgender experience. Truly opened my eyes and changed my life for the better.

When it comes to movies, I'm a sucker for anything Studio Ghibli. As for live action... If it has a good story and is not super violent, I will likely enjoy it. I hate horror films, they give me way too many nightmares.

I don't watch much TV. Got through the first season of Buffy and Orange is the New Black, and started White Collar and Orphan Black.

I like food, a lot. Especially sushi. I am game to try anything when it comes to food however, and love checking out new restaurants and trying new foods. I am also a beer geek, mostly ales, especially IPAs.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends (always willing to add more to the collection!)
The gym
Good beer
Obnoxious pop and rap music
My computer
Fashionable clothing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to improve myself, planning out training for powerlifting, musing about gender theory. Lots of different things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, sad to say. I would much rather spend my Friday nights spending time with cool people, talking, drinking, and making merry. I would love for the chance to sweep girls off their feet and have a good time on the night when most people seem to be having a good time, rather than working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a transgender man in the beginning stages of my medical transition.
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Message me if you dare!

I am a talkative gent, but readily lose interest if I feel like I have to carry the burden of keeping the conversation going.