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24 Chatham, NJ Transmasculine, Trans Man

Transmasculine, Trans Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 9
Demisexual, Queer
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Not at all
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Pretty-boy transgender man, looking for ladies of all persuasions, as well as non-binary individuals and fellow transmen for conversation, company, and good times. I don't mind talking with cisgender men (and by this I mean actual conversation), but not really interested in much more than that. Unless you have the body of Adonis, then I might want to fuck you on principle alone.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living life to the fullest: working hard, playing hard, and having no regrets. Life is too damn short to not take risks.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Being charming and dapper
-Spending way too much of my disposable income on clothing and quality booze.
-Unintentionally sounding like a know-it-all, especially when it comes to matters of nutrition, food, fitness, and alcohol.
-Listening and giving advice.
-Giving hugs and cuddling, and I guess sex. (Haven't had any complaints and quite a few rave reviews)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-Fashion style (when I am dressed fully dapper)
-Voice, if they catch me singing

How about you tell me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've got too many favorites in each category, so going to list the first three that come to mind for each.

Books: MIddlesex, Spindle's End, Gender Failure

Movies: MIllenium Actress, Into The Woods, Much Ado About Nothing

Musical Artists: Idina Menzel, Nicki Minaj, Britney Spears

Food: Sushi, Steak, Slow smoked barbeque

Games: Dominion, Magic the Gathering, and Carcassonne.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food
My journal and pen
The Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wondering why the hell guys think a one word message is going to be responded to.

How long it is going to take before I too can start using douchey shirtless pics on dating sites/apps.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chilling out. Mostly at home since it is my recharge time after a week of work, but I've been known to go out to the local bar to shoot pool and hang with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My favorite way to relax is by taking a nice hot bath with a floral smelling bubble bath. Or maybe a Lush Bath Bomb.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Be like Nike: Just Do It. But really go for it, a one or two word message isn't going to garner much of a response from me unless I find you extremely attractive. But if you give a decent effort at conversation, I'll usually play ball.