To determine the measure of a decent man... It's in the strength he displays under pressure, the sensitivity he unashamedly expresses & his willingness to reveal vulnerability, even at the risk of being hurt...! It's found in the honesty_blu3_ & truth of his words, his unselfish actions, the genuineness of his life & the values he lives by...!
To determine the measure of a man, it's not by comparing him to other men, either weaker or stronger...! U will know when meeting a real decent man, by how much U trust him & believe in him...!
Above all how much his life & character enhances YOURS...! Otherwise don't stick around !!!