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35 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Escaping a military-run kindergarden at 5; fertilized on the biggest nerd farm on this planet; exported to New York at 20 to endure large scholarships thrown at me; Ambidextrous by way of a corrected lefty plus brutal amount of piano practice, 30 years and counting; easily the cutest softball pitcher in Central Park but don't let the cute act fool you.

Nietzschean, distinguished, selfless, dedicated, blessed with a third eye that sees right through the world's tumult, insanely talented without being an asshole about it. Although no ordinary individual, bottom-line, a nice girl governed by kindness and love.

I draw a fine line between high self-esteem and narcissism. I desire the company of an equal who also converses with his vocation and is unafraid to love.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Composer of concert music. (Yes, like Mozart or Mahler. No, not like John Williams or Bruce Springsteen.) Working on a PhD at a major private university. Teaching at a major state university.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading people;
learning the skills necessary to accomplish anything I set my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
bubbly thought bubbles
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My own.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
love and Love; (if we can agree on what they are)
hearty home-cooking;
playing group sports; (softball and badminton)
my Steinway;
love and Love; (when we can agree on what they are)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. My music; (dehh) 2. To go all Socratic on people and not drink hemlock in the end. 3. What's for dinner?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sorry Woody, but bad sex is irreversibly bad.
You should message me if
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All of the below:
a) You write well enough to grab my attention; (one-liners will be deleted)
b) You think you can share a boat with a Bengal Tiger;
c) You understand b) is metaphoric;
d) You are healthy, mentally and physically.