Before anything I have to say that I'm a daddy first and formost, I have an amazing 3 year old boy who is my life :) I have him with me just about half the time and he comes before anything... Just sayin lol

My career says I'm a paraprofessional, sounds important (which it is), but whoever made up that word shoulda realized that it's easier to say 'teacher's aide'. So, I'm a teachers aide at Celebrate the Children school for kids and teens with alternate learning styles (mainly autism with a mix of downs and a few just behavioral students). I love my career, it doesn't pay a whole bunch yet but there are advancement opportunities, and it's so rewarding.

I've recently quit smoking (sometime in the end of August) and I'm so happy I can breathe again! I've also decided to work on my voice so I can sing my songs instead of just wish I could. I don't drink, which I know may be a downer for some, but I don't need to drink to have a good time and I just don't like it I guess :)

Now I you've made it this far you BETTER message me! Lol j/k here's where I share what I'm looking for...

Someone who...
- is kind
- is happy
- loves life
- can take a good compliment
- is honest
- holds hands
- loves kids
- wants closeness
- is family oriented

I am all of those things so I need someone with the same qualities. I also love all the small stuff. I pay close attention to detail in everything I see and do, I notice eyes, smiles, facial expressions, body language, I enjoy natural beauty in everything. I wear my heart on my sleeve and you can always tell what kind of mood I'm in or what I'm thinking by my eyes. I'm not a big drama fan and I never blow anything out of proportion. I'm searching for happiness, I hope you find me :)

Now here's the part that makes me look like an ass but i'm puttin it anyway... I'm a very sexual person. I'm only bein honest, but if I'm gonna be having relationship with someone and sex comes into the picture, foreplay is a must, I'm sorry but if you don't enjoy foreplay, it won't work. Now I'm sure that you may have stopped reading this already but if you haven't, I'll have you know that sex is not the most important thing, I assure you, but when the time comes, foreplay is more than appropriate lol SEX IS NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR... just had to make that clear.

Now if you have made it THIS far, please write me, what's the worst that can happen? You're already on here lookin so you've got nothing to lose :)

I work with autistic children at a school in Dover called Celebrate the Children. I love my job and the environment at the school. I'm also a proud father of a 1 year old wonderful baby boy, Braydon, who I get to have with me almost half-time (I'll get there lol).

I try to be the best at anything I do, so basically, I do the best I can one day ate a time. I try not to plan too far into my future (seriously, I don't plan for Saturday when it's anytime before Thursday night) but I guess I have dreams. I also think I'm good at making the best of any situation. I don't like to focus on the negative or the worst case scenario. I do my best to live one day at a time and stay in the positive.

Some people notice my arms, some notice my nose, some notice how i'm usually the happiest person in any room no matter the situation :)

My Favorite song in the whole world is "Anything Like Me" by Brad Paisley. I love all types of movies, even chick flicks, and I guess I'd have to say that Forest Gump is my #1 favorite movie...go ahead, make fun, lol. My favorite TV show is Friends, I have all the seasons on DVD so it's always on even if I'm not actually watching it. As far as books go, pretty much anything by James Patterson.

My Family, My Friends, Phone, piano, car and New Jersey Devils hockey!!

What i'll be doing later tonight since i usually don't plan much...but if you'd like to plan something, let me know, i'm open for suggestions

Usually hanging out with my closest friends and/or family

I have a shoe fetish lol not my own shoes, but sexy shoes on women. I have a favorite designer and a favorite shoe lol I know, I have issues... But just think, I will spoil you with shoes ;)

If you've made it this far in the profile lol and if you're on here to find someone you can get close to and maybe start somethin special :)