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50 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 6:33pm
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- 5' 11" (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
Some books that impacted me early in my life and what they helped me with:
The Sleep Book--Dr. Suess (sleep)
Manchild in the Promised Land--Claude Brown (acting tough can get you through some hard times)
The World According to Garp--John Irving (love and desire is a beautiful thing)
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance--Robert Pirsig (pay attention to things and get lost in them)
Crime and Punishment--Fyodor Dostoyevsky (don't trip)
Breathing Lessons--Ann Tyler (breathe and have compassion for yourself)
Galapagos--Kurt Vonnegut (a large brain isn't always a great thing)
I like most art forms including theatre, dance ...movies. I like comedy and will put up with a few groans for a good laugh. (Carol Burnett is a personal hero.)
Food--I love it. All kinds. I tend to eat what my body tells me I need. Love meat, but like less of it in my diet. I sometimes eat junk food but try and eat healthy and buy sustainable products.
I like all kinds of music, but I'm not a person who has it on all the time. I like quiet too.
Bengal Spice Tea
Did I mention Bengal Spice Tea?
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