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28 Chula Vista, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 11
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Not at all
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I have many nicknames but Ame is good until we get to know each other better. I work with children for a living and for fun I participate in a lot of regular social activities.

Let me say this up front. I am transgender mtf, I dress and live as a girl and I am starting hormones soon. I have a lot of feminine traits and interests but at the same time I also enjoy what some would consider typically boy interests. Honestly I'm quite comfortable being me and I'm perfectly happy in the grey zone between norms =3

I won't lie I am quite a big nerd. My biggest past time is video games and I also play board games and table top games with my friends regularly. Some other interests I have include martial arts, dancing, hiking, and cos-playing (I'm still new to that last one)

I graduated UNLV with a major in Int'l Business and a minor in Japanese. I would love to go to Japan at some point but first I want to better establish myself financially. I just moved to Cali in August of 2014, so yay for new beginnings!

Up until now I always seemed to get hooked up with someone younger than me, but I'm looking for someone a little mature and established in their life. I don't really have any drama in my life, but that doesn't mean I want someone else's instead =)
What I’m doing with my life
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Just moved to Cali, so currently as of 8/13/14... job hunting XD got 2 interviews lined up and hopefully I'll remember to update this once I have something more exciting to report
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with kids, entertainment.
Video Games (challenge me, I dare you =D )
I would like to consider myself a good listener and people person, but I will let you be the judge of that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My spaced-out personality? I think I am kind and considerate, but I know I am also horrible with remembering and noticing the obvious. My friends say I live in a state of perpetual obliviousness. But if nothing else I promise to always be honest with myself and those around me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't really read many books... use to read the WoW books when I played pre-Wotlk.

I love Lord of the Rings, 10th Kingdom, Resident Evil, and many many other movies, but I am a big time Fantasy and Sci-fi fan. My all time FAVORITE show is Stargate, loved all 3 series but SG-1 was the best. I also watch a fair amount of anime including naruto, bleach, Dragonball, Princess Princess, Ranma 1/2, and ya the list continues. Currently I'm in a sci-fi mood and I'm watching Startrek shows... on Voyager atm.

Favorite type of music is EDM, I like going to raves and am even a decent glow-stringer. But I enjoy almost all sorts of music, probably the genre I care the least for are Rap and Classical tho, but I still have my moods for them.

I'm not big on food choices, never really developed a 'refined taste' for anything, but I'll give you a hug if you buy me a Reese's =3
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family - My mom is my foundation.
My Friends - They are my Life
Video Games - Draining away whats left of my life
Music - It empowers me
Laughter - A life without happiness would be pointless
Self-honesty - Never mislead anyone, least of all yourself
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I am looking for in a relationship. Which is someone who is mature, responsible, has a job and a car. (I've been a taxi too many times.) But can also let their hair down and play games, and likes to have fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I really don't have a typical Friday night, it's ever changing... XD

*When I lived in Vegas*
I am involved with Tae Kwon Do 4 times a week instructing and helping teach. I sometimes go to clubs or movies on weekends, and once a week I meet up with friends so we can get all White and Nerdy with each other.
*Will update once I've got work and am settled her in Cali*
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm Trans, I'm not shamed of it, nor am I necessarily proud. I consider it to be just simply a part of who I am. Like having brown hair, or having one foot slightly larger than the other. I am simply me =3
You should message me if
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a) You like what you see and read
b) You want to go hang out at a club or movie
c) You want to play a game over the internet
d) You like foxes and the color purple