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37 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:06am
Asian, Indian
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from med school
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Excellent. Here's where I explain who I am in sound bites that are easy to read and entertaining but still fully express my personality. No problem!

So my favorite color is lime green and my favorite ice cream flavor is B&J's chubby hubby (NOT the annoyingly similarly named chunky monkey). My favorite cloud type is cumulonimbus, favorite diacritic mark is the umlaut and favorite meal is brunch. What more do you need to know?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved to NYC 2 years ago from New Orleans. Before that I spent a year backpacking in Central America (Guatemala, Nicaragua, & Honduras).

I'm loving NYC. So far I've checked out many many restaurants, plays on and off Broadway, the opera, modern dance, museums, live music, book readings, all kinds of classes (yoga, capoeira, sewing, rock climbing, drawing, bicycling) ... The hardest thing is to fit all the fun things there are to do into a 24 hour day!

I'm a scientist. Typing that made me smile.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
• starting new projects (I eventually finish most of them)
• being a good and loyal friend
• cooking
• massages
• underwatering the basil and then overwatering to compensate, thus ensuring it dies a slow and painful death

I'm really bad at but still enjoy
• capoeira
• art projects
• sewing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my dimple if I'm smiling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've recently become addicted to the On Being podcast because it's so inspiring. The John Lewis one is my favorite.

Books - too many! Ones that come to mind at the moment are: Hero with a Thousand Faces, The Cheese Monkeys, The Outsider, To Kill a Mockingbird, Man for Himself, Emma, Middlesex, The Meaning and Importance of Fairy Tales, The Passion

Movies - Life Aquatic, Death at a Funeral (British version), Scent of Green Papaya, American Pimp, Big Lebowski (I once saw someone dressed as the BL for Mardi Gras. It was the easiest costume ever. He just wandered around in ratty bathrobe and slippers, drinking a caucasian and saying stuff like "the Dude abides.")

Shows - The Smurfs. Except for the one where we find out that La Schtroumpfette started out as a fake evil smurf. How sad!

Music - The Magnetic Fields/Stephen Merritt, Mana, Zydepunks, Red Stick Ramblers, Julieta Venegas, The National

Food - I'm an adventurous eater and will try almost anything once. I'm on a quest for the best noodles in Chinatown. So far, Xian's famous foods is the hands-down winner.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and loved ones
Cayenne pepper
Karl Pilkington
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is it like to be a bat?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for my muchness.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should message me if
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You have a sense of adventure, you can challenge me, and/or you can teach me how to do a handstand.

I'm looking for someone who has their stuff together, is happy with their lot in life and wants to be an equal partner in a relationship. Confidence is a major plus. Someone who shares my love of books, food and/or exercise would also be pretty awesome.

Addendum: I'm looking for someone who I can be totally uncool with. As Lester said, "The only true currency in this bankrupt world is what we share with someone else when we're uncool."