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Amt0220

50 / F / Straight / Single

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 5:09am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Newly single after 26 years of marriage. I haven't been in the dating world since college. I am betting things are very different. I strive for a good work/life balance having always worked full time- even after having my two daughters. I am financially stable, own my own home and always able to pay my bills. I am not looking for someone to take care of me, I am looking for a relationship where we can take care of each other. Friendship, compassion, honesty, ability to laugh at oneself- these are traits that I will bring to a relationship and hope to find someone willing to do the same. Life is too short and too precious to spend it alone. I am in the prime of my life and I don't want to miss a second of it.......
What I’m doing with my life
I bought an 83 year old house in the south hills 4 months ago (right as the divorce was finalized-no fault, no mess, no drama). I am enjoying the house, but with both of my daughters away at school this house just gets too lonely. I want to fill my life with love and compassion- it has been so long since I felt either emotion. Looking for the right man to step in.
Career and family are humming along........just need a partner to enjoy the ride.
I’m really good at
I am a problem solver. I love to work on complex issues- work or personal- and develop solutions. I need to learn though that not everyone needs or wants to be "fixed". I need to learn to chill sometimes and let life happen. These last six months have taught me a lot and I am trying to follow the mellowed path.
The first things people usually notice about me
My red hair and then the personality that matches it. I am an optimist, the glass is always half full and if someone doesn't think so, I am always willing to pour the, some form my glass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot. Favorite authors include; Steven King, George RR Martin, Tolkien. I love the Walking Dead- but since living alone I have not been able to watch it- I would love to find some one to watch it with- but I need to warn you- I will hide behind you for most of the show-LOVE zombies, LOVE being scared but only if I know there is someone near to protect me.
The six things I could never do without
Hot showers
Flannel sheets in the winter and silky sheets in the summer
Chocolate
Books
Music
Human contact- I really miss this
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future. I don't want to waste anytime. Life is too short to be lonesome.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sad to say but sitting on my couch with a glass of wine wishing I had someone to cuddle with- I know- it will be almost impossible to find someone if I just keep sitting on the couch. I am trying. Baby steps. I haven't been to a bar or on a date in over 25 years. I don't think clubs even existed when I was single?!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not high school skinny, but I look pretty good for a 49 year old. Most people are surprised when they hear my age.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 42–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends