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39 M Jersey City, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:11pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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I've finally joined the world of OKCupid...what to say. I'm a trip, really. Funny, quirky, smart, interesting. At least I think so. :)

I'd like to meet someone fantastic. I think that's a reasonable goal.

I enjoy kindness, laughter, the arts, food and drink, and doing things that aren't lame.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to enjoy as much of it as possible! I moved back to NYC area last year after time in DC and Philly, and have been trying to re-explore the city and meet new people while balancing the demands of work. Film is a huge interest of mine. So is theater. I'm trying to be a good community and family member. I'm trying to get to the beach as much as possible. I'm writing a book and I read them too :) I follow the world around me, try to be kind, and enjoy helping others. I try to move forward, but am savoring the good moments along the way.

I'm an attorney, but I don't really talk about work much outside of the office and never bring work home. It's a job, not how I define who I am.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping others
Finding humor in everything
Being patient
Being compassionate
Talking to dogs on the street like they are adults
Being allergic to cats
Napping :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall. A smile. Observant eyes. A humorously bad memory. A kind manner. Respect for others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book is Dracula by Bram Stoker. Amazingly well written. My favorite mystery (my main genre of interest) is Curtain by Agatha Christie. I have a zillion films I love for different reasons, but my current fave is 2001: A Space Odyssey. My favorite theatrical production is Rent. Recent TV faves include Walking Dead, Brooklyn 99, QI and lots of other British stuff, I'm open to all kinds of pandora station at work is the mumford mix. I'm a bit of a foodie, so I like a lot. Faves right now include japanese, seafood, greek, spanish, and italian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughter/seeing people smile
The shore/ocean breezes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways I can help others
Ways I can enjoy life
New restaurants to try
Very random things - I have lots of them! :)
How I can get better pictures for online dating
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner and drinks, spending time with family, enjoying the arts somehow, or chilling at home with something old, british, or foreign on the big screen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This one really has me thinking....for now you're stuck with the fact that I find corn to be gross.
You should message me if
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You're looking for a cool, open, kind, and fun guy who has had just the right blend of experiences to make now the perfect time for a new relationship.

You enjoy real conversations, sharing life with someone who listens, and doing fun things.

You are awesome.