I identify as queer and am more interested in exploring relationships with other queer people at the moment, rather than hetero cis men.
I've been thinking a lot about polyamory, and recently had my first experience of it. I'm not sure that its really for me right now. I think I would prefer more security and exclusivity at least in the beginning, but am not totally opposed to the idea of eventually opening up a relationship depending on the person/situation.
I feel quite shy with people I don't know very well, and I second guess everything. I'm terrible at making the first move (the phrase 'bumbling idiot' comes to mind), so if I've been looking at your profile and we are a high match but I haven't sent you a message chances are I'm too scared or intimidated to actually say anything to you.