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53 • Durham, NC • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–65
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 24
- 5′ 5″ (1.65m)
- Body type
- Rather not say
- Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
-Doomsday Book by Connie Willis, Jack McDevitt, Lois McMaster Bujold, Elizabeth Peters, Terry Pratchett
-Barenaked Ladies, The Beatles, Duffy, Queen, indie rock, Adele
-My homemade macaroni and cheese, chinese food, Texas beef brisket
-designing dream houses in my head
-planning my future
-having imaginary conversations with real people
-writing books in my head that never make it to paper :(
•You know how to disagree with someone without it turning into an argument, and you don't sulk when you're wrong
•You're okay with being silly occasionally but you don't really find practical jokes all that funny.
•You know the difference between their, they're and there, and between its, its' and it's.
•You have never posted ANYTHING about loving God or Jesus, or being blessed, or WWJD, etc., etc.
•Most important: You're calm, cheerful, and communicative!
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