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36 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:40am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Plain and simple, I want to meet someone with whom I click (physically, emotionally, intellectually) and can take the time to build a caring, trusting, and long-lasting relationship. I want to look forward to the exciting parts: great sex, adventure, learning about another human. I want to look forward to the day-to-day parts: waking up together, making meals, cleaning the house. OK, all that will come down the road, but it's about being happy with all the parts. That's what I want.

I'm a native northern Californian. I've lived all over this great state and even spent two years in L.A. I enjoyed my time there, but the Bay Area is the place for me. I take a few trips a year up to Humboldt County, where I went to school and my mom and sister currently reside. It's a great place to visit!

I love being a teacher! I'm a bit quirky and silly but that goes over pretty well with my students. People often say, "You must have a lot of patience," upon learning my profession. I always respond, "With my students, I do." Perhaps if I think of adults as overgrown children, I would have more patience with them as well.

I enjoy learning other people's perspectives. I'd rather sit and listen to others' ideas than spew off my own. Don't get me wrong. I can go on and on about certain things: Special Education, electronic music, cars, linguistics/grammar and other topics, too. It's always refreshing to hear some new idea, or twist on an old one, and letting it swirl around in my mind to see how it sits with what's already there.

I appreciate aesthetics: buildings, art, fashion, cars, and the like. I can often feel these items' contributions to the world better than I could describe them. I prefer bold colors and shapes. My favorite artist is Wassily Kandinsky. My favorite car is a Porsche 911 Turbo, not that I could ever afford one on a teacher's salary.

Other favorites: dancing, shopping, dining, driving.

I am stylish, determined, and cheerful.

Many of these items hit home with me:
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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it the best way I know how!
Learning about myself.
Learning about others.
Going on road trips to visit family and friends, mostly between San Francisco and Humboldt County.
Working with kids. I've had all sorts of jobs with kids in schools, after-school programs and summer camps.
Exploring to find out what's going on.
Overall, adding to my collection of experiences.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being patient with my students even when they are really pissing me off.
Finding a good bargain.
Dancing like nobody's watching.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dance moves.
My haircut. At least that's what gets complimented the most, if that's any indication.
My youthful appearance. Most people think I am much younger than I actually am.
Someone once asked me, "Are you on a sit-com? You look like you could be the older sister who is always cracking the jokes." I would have loved to have been able to say, "Yes."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Little Prince, Celestine Prophecy, The Phantom Tollbooth
Movies: Garden State, Big Fish, Dazed and Confused, Devil Wears Prada, Coraline, Better Off Dead, Little Miss Sunshine, Footloose, The Wiz, School of Rock, Heathers, Breakfast Club, Yes Man, Stranger Than Fiction, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Happy Accidents, 500 Days of Summer, Scott Pilgrim vs. the World, Moonrise Kingdom, Interstella 5555
Shows: Jeopardy, Project Runway, How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory, New Girl, The Goldbergs, and Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt.
Music: Depeche Mode, Pet Shop Boys, Blur, Pulp, Justin Timberlake, Outkast, Daft Punk, Justice, Boys Noize, Tiga, Sam Sparro, Scissor Sisters, Hot Chip, Goldfrapp, Chromeo, Tesla Boy, Aeroplane, Moon Boots, LeBRON, Kraak & Smaak, Horse Meat Disco, The Magician, Breakbot, Tiger & Woods, Tensnake and many more!
I freakin' love electronic music!!!
Food: Sushi, pizza, cheese burgers, salads, Pad Thai, pho, BBQ, ice cream and more. I like all kinds of food and I love trying new restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tasty & healthy food
A full-length mirror (for checking my outfit and my dance moves)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The connection between us all in this big/small world.
How I will do things differently to be a better teacher as I move forward on my career path.
What I will wear.
Being over 35 and still looking under 25 and the implications that may or may not be present because of it.
Where I will go dancing next.
Where I will find more great music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out tearing up the dancefloor or in relaxing after a busy week of teaching.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a Hot Wheels collection.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are fun and can handle a fiery chick like me.
You dig electronic music.
You think we'd get along,
You want to explore/enjoy the Bay Area.