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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:42am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Rather not say
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I will do my best to keep this profile 100! I don't like bullshit or a lack of communication, this should come through in my profile. I can be a little random and sometimes lacking focus.
I am INFP and it seems to be a good description. I may be introverted until I get comfortable but I've been working through that a lot lately and I'm getting much better at opening up. I like to think I balance being a child with being an adult leaning to the child side. Anarchist, health driven, climber, autodidact, I love learning how to do or make things, 95% vegan. You don't have to be vegan but healthy and eating quality food, whatever your diet, would be cool. I can be very eccentric yet at times very logical.

QUESTIONING QUESTIONING QUESTIONING!!! This starts with my own thoughts and be-LIE-fs! Feel free to point out my bullshit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning things, making things. Being as child like as I want, too many people seem to grow up too much for my taste. Using less.
I also work as an electrician sometimes which thankfully affords me a lot of time to not work! Seriously jobs suck. Within the next 10 years I WILL have my own property and be building my natural home and growing all my own food.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ideas! Both crazy and highly applicable, I really think this is one of my best talents. Climbing, gardening, making things, debating, cool things.
Eye contact!
Finding questions to ask about things most people never question in the first place.
Breaking believed social constructs and making people ACTUALLY think about a subject, if they are willing to talk about real shit.
Catching myself when I fall before I hit the ground.
I know LOTS about ways to save and make energy, as in alternative energy.
Massaging, I love giving massages! If you want a massage ask, the answer is probably yes.
Things with my hands and i can tie a cherry stem with my mouth.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm looking you in the eyes, possibly my septum piercing or my bare feet, if its not hella cold. But this says more about the person noticing than me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books, so I was never much of a reader as I'm dyslexic but I am starting to get into it.
I love the Swiss Family Robinson, HOLY FUCK the hitchhikers guide to the universe books are amazing! I love his style and plan on reading all of Douglas Adams's books.
Permaculture 2 a designers manual
Gaia's garden 2nd edition, 
humanure handbook, this book is the shit and can save the third AND first worlds.
Ultimate Guide to Wilderness Living
Disinformation:Everything you know is wrong!
Books that are about knowledge based skills.
#####E.T. 101! This book is my manual and it has a special meaning for me, if this book has the same meaning to you WE SHOULD TALK!
I would like to read 'the great conversation but thats a long term thing.
Anything truthful like, 
They live
What the bleep do we know
Movies i dont like hangover, 40yo virgin, dude lost my car,
I don't have one and don't want one.
I do llike South Park, Mr show, athf, x-files, Rick and Morty, Game of thrones
reggae, Dub fx, Paranoid Castle, Radiohead, Led Zeplin, Tom Waits, Gogol Bordello, KRS-ONE, Africa Bambaataa, Immortal Technique, MC Larz, MC Chris, MC Frontsalot, conscious hip hop and good songs about cannabliss!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The puppers!! Quetzi and Daisy! (rip Scooby)
My hands, they are the most useful tools.
My mind, it may not the best but i have spent a lot of time working on it.
My other half, Anarkey, she opened my eyes and is a member of my soul family. She will not be let go and hopefully we can find the rest of our family. If you have any questions about her and our relationship, feel free to ask anything.
Quality food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How almost everything we are told is a lie.
The lies we tell ourselves.
Language and the complete misuse of it.
Symbols, their hidden meaning and subconscious programs within them.
Bobbers, Scoobie Doo(one of my previous pups) I still miss that guy!
How stupid ALL poly-ticks are. Energy and how to create it.
Waste, food production, land design. weird things.
My recent interesting thought. How ironic it is that some, clearly not all, qweer and non-cis judge people who identify as cis when they could in fact feel trapped by the same social bullshit they are fighting against. Don't judge people until you get the facts.
How to please women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home on the internet teaching myself things or making something like wooden plugs, snuggling Daisy and Quetzi.
You probably won't catch me at a bar or club, I am willing to go though if the company is good.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I may be more excited to meet your dog, I always feel a strong connection to dogs and enjoy communicating with them.
Feel free to ask anything.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a freethinker who is breaking your and others programs, you want a climbing buddy (I have all the gear). You want to hangout and make stuff, like; electronics, arts and crafts, sewing, gardening.

So, here is some about sex, kink, and the related. I have had relationships in the past that didn't click here and it ended up causing problems, and lets all be honest, it's an important factor.
I'm somewhat kinky but not into humiliation or any real amount of pain, the mind is my kink ;) I love giving massages, snuggling and licking all day, sensuality drives me crazy! I'm finding I like the idea of being a little sub, maybe I could make you dinner and serve it to you.
I really am up for almost anything so lets talk, I'm trying to expand my horizons. I'll try anything twice.
So I live with my other Anarkey. Its kinda poly kinda just friends. She is my bff and my soul family. I love her lots and our future plans are the same and together, eventually finding more souls on the same frequency and building a community, not sure exactly how to explain it but your free to ask anything you like. I'm listed as poly but its because of this relationship. One life long lover is not something I rule out with the right person but if that's the case living off grid in a very rural area some day is part of that.