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31 M Martinez, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:07am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am apparently kind of a dork if i am to believe my friends, I can also be a little awkward! i am a lot more talkative in person, although awkward then too. :D
I am INFP, the one that is like 1% of the population. Very introverted until I get comfortable, then you'll see a weird erratically ecstatic 4/60 year old. I seem to balance being a child with being an old man. 

I am what most would call extreme. Anarchist in many ways. That lame political test got me wrong, the thing is that although i may feel something is wrong i would never force my beliefs on another.
Vegan, (other than honey!). You dont have to be vegan but healthy and eating quality food, whatever your diet, would be cool.
I am constantly examining myself; mentally, psychically, spiritually and so on. I can be very eccentric yet at times very logical. Very health driven. Climber at heart.
Auto-didactic! Let's learn stuff together!
As you may be able to tell I can be a little random and sometimes lacking focus.
QUESTIONING QUESTIONING QUESTIONING!!! This starts with my own thoughts and beLIEfs!   
SADHGURU JAGGI VASUDEV This video helped me through a lot of low times.
I go by Robinson Crusoe, or Sovereign or as many of my friends call me Sov.
I am also commitmentphobic. This does not mean that I am unable to commit but it means that if I was going to we would have to be good friends first. I want to know someone very well before I am willing to be with them.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Thinking too much. I want to transition to gardening (premaculture landscaping and design) as a profession, making things, learning things. Making cardboard furniture (and forts, desks, lights, not joking here) being as child like as i want. Trying to discipline myself but im such a rebel :p. Using less, this has actually become a bit stressful lately as I have learned a lot about waste and industrial production of goods. Teaching myself to build electronics. I would rather make something than buy it any day. 
Snuggling puppers!!!
Oh I also work as an electrician sometimes which thankfully affords me a lot of time to not work! Seriously jobs suck. 
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ideas! Both crazy and highly applicable, I really think this is one of my best talents. 
Climbing, gardening, making things, debating, cool things. Finding questions to ask about things most people never question.  
Breaking believed social constructs and making people ACTUALLY think about a subject
Catching myself when i fall before i hit the ground.
i know LOTS about ways to save and make energy, as in alternative energy.
Smoking cannabis, there are proper techniques and practices to it. Apparently i am an 'amazing' raw chef, that's what my only friend who eats raw says anyways. im pretty good at making cooked food to, so if you've got some REAL food ingredients I would like to make you some food. I am a cunning linguist ;), just being honest. Massages! I love giving them and like to get them too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My lack of style. I tend not to care for looks or style, and apparently it shows. Possibly my septum piercing or my bare feet, if its not hella cold . But this says more about the person noticing than me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books, so i was never much of a reader as im dyslexic but i am starting to get into it.
I love the Swiss Family Robinson, books that are about knowledge based skills. 
Permaculture 2 a designers manual
Gaia's garden 2nd edition, 
humanure handbook, this book is the shit and can save the third AND first worlds.
Ultimate Guide to Wilderness Living: Surviving with Nothing But Your Bare Hands and What You Find in the Woods by John McPherson and Geri McPherson. I would love to live in the woods making everything for myself!
Disinformation:Everything you know is wrong!

#####E.T. 101! This book is my manual and it has a special meaning for me. On that note if this book has the same meaning to you WE SHOULD TALK!
I would like to read 'the great conversation' but thats a long term thing.
anything truthful like, 
They live
What the bleep do we know
not anything dumb though like hangover, 40yo virgin, dude lost my car, sorry i try not to watch crap
dont have one, dont want one. i do watch southpark though, its free! mr show, athf, x-files
reggae, dub fx, paranoid castle, radiohead, led zeplin, 2short if im smoking a blunt rolling through oakland, tom waits, gogol bordello, KRS-ONE, africa bambaataa, immortal technique, mc larz, mc chris, mc frontsalot, conscious hip hop and good songs about cannabliss!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The puppers!!!!! Scooby rip! Quetzi and Daisy! They are my children and they get treated better then most human children. I can't imagine loving anything or anyone more. 
My hands, they are the most useful tools.
My mind, it may not the best but i have spent a lot of time working on it.
My best friend Anarkey, she opened my eyes and is a member of my soul family. She will not be let go and hopefully we can find the rest of our family. 
Quality food.
6 Things i easily do without.
Cell phone! i dont have one and dont plan on it.
Willful ignorance, in the age of the internet ignorance is a choice!
Blood family, you may have been born into a supportive family but unfortunately i was not. 
The state. 
Bacon and all the popularity that comes with it, yall know its basicly just fat right?
The "culture" of "america" and people not knowing what america actually means. Did you know people in brazil are americans? So are canadiens. 
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How almost everything we are told is a lie. The lies we tell ourselves. Language and the complete misuse of it. Symbols, their hidden meaning and subconscious programs within them. Bobbers Bobo Sir Bobolobodobo Scoobie Doo(one of my pups) How stupid ALL poly-ticks are. Energy and how to create it. Waste, food production, land design. weird things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home on the internet teaching myself things or making something like wooden plugs or a circut board for controlling my greenhouse. Squishing Bobers with kisses! He is so the cutest dog person ever! Serious, he has an extra bone in his liver that emits cute beta waves. :p I miss my little gut so much! Or singing to Daisy, she is adorable too!
You probably won't catch me at a bar or club, I am willing to go though if the company is good.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am an E.T. born to aliens. I am human this time though.
I may be more excited to meet your dog, I always feel a strong connection to dogs and enjoy communicating with them.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
YOU READ MY PROFILE, it's full of 'dealbreakers' so please look closely.
your a freethinker who is breaking your and others programs, you would like to go rock climbing and talk about "conspiracies". Maybe you want a climbing buddy (I have all the gear) or want to go camping. You want to help me learn about microcontrollers and electronics or make some arts or crafts. You know how to sew and want to make some cool stuff. You must like getting massages and head, sometimes at the same time.
I try my best not to be into style and looks, because it is a superficial layer, but I am a sucker for the nomad with tattoos and piercings/ anarchist look. 8P I cant help it. I really am up for almost anything so lets talk, I'm trying to expand my horizons. I'll try anything twice. I also need a serious amount of time to myself so please don't take it wrong if we're emailing and I take a few days to get back to you, I promise to give you the same breathing room. 
So I live with my something Anarkey. Its kinda poly kinda just friends. She is my bff and my soul family. I love her more than i knew love existed. We will be living together for ever, eventually finding more souls on the same frequency. This is rarely a physical relationship, not sure exactly how to explain it but your free to ask anything you like.
So I just got my first cell phone in 3 years and I would prefer to be without one. I would like you to know this because I would prefer to talk in email first before I give out my number, I'm extremely protective of my bubble.