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56 F Gresham, OR

My Details

Last Online
Jan 29
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hello, summer's is finally here time for BBQ's, car shows, warm sunny days and cool long nights. The only thing missing is someone to spend some of these lazy summer days with.
How do I summarize myself, I think I'm pretty normal. I'm from Oregon born in our own Emmanuel Hospital. Divorced, 3 grown children, one special grandson, some grand-kitties and I have a bossy cat. I would like someone to catch a movie with now and then, go out and listen to some live music. Head out for some classic car shows, street fairs & maybe hit the Portland street food seen some. Do some Art walks, see some comedy shows maybe some live theater. Oh I'm a liberal, and its important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Attempting to give back, I realized everything after age 40 is bonus years. I listed all my abilities and explored how I could best serve my community and still earn enough to survive. I decided to become an educator of some sort. So I ended up working for Portland Public Schools and have for the last 3 yrs. I work with the special needs population as a substitute para-educator. I like the flexibility of my job. I like that I am giving hard working people a day off. It's really hard work, and honesty I have been looking for something else or maybe another part-time job. Other than my so called career, I sing some I'm exploring art, and I like to garden a little. I really have not had any burning unfulfilled desires. I do go to church and those questions were a little to cut and dried for my taste. Spirituality is important to me, and it's personal. My church is kind of on the "new age y" side. I'm not a "crazy Christian" but I do believe in spiritual connection. I also like the community I find at church. Otherwise I might become too isolated from others. That's the trick isn't it? Finding that balance between the right community and isolation. I also meditate, I swim more in the summer than other times of the year. Oh and when it comes to relationships, I go real slow. I've learned it takes time to meet the real person so I have really slowed things down.
I’m really good at
Making a meal fast. No one starves on my watch.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know you tell me.
It might be the colors in my hair, not sure.
This depends on the filters the person has in place at the time.
I think I haven't been doing too well in the first impressions dept. lately, and I'm not all that sure why. Part of me just doesn't care anymore about it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really like Rock-a-billy.
Guess I'll have to think about the movies, books and food later.
I do like Sci-fi and foreign stuff.
Movies, lately I like comedies, I want to laugh more.
The six things I could never do without
That first cup of coffee in the morning for sure. Family of course, and community. A safe home, I do like my car. That's 5 are you my 6th?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Well that's just it, I don't think I do. Spend a lot of time thinking. I can get pretty focused about my work when at work. I have gotten pretty good at meditation so I can clear my head pretty well now. Sometimes I'm kinda spaced out, I think it's a post menopausal thing. I admit it. I have gotten pretty good at just being. It's not a crime is it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately not much, I'd really like this to change.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Shaving is over rated (for women that is). If you want more private info. you'll have to earn it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Let's attempt to become friends, friendship is very important to me right now how about you?
Please no Alcoholics, Druggies, or Smokers. Please be have stable mental health. Honesty is important to me.