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AndehM

28 / M / straight / Single

Kirkland, Washington

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am independent, intelligent, and considerate.

My Self-Summary

I'm 28 years old, working as a project engineer at a construction company. I grew up in Washington, went to the UW, and got a degree unrelated to my work but in something I enjoyed. I like the outdoors, and enjoy them rock climbing, hiking, and occasionally skiing. I enjoy the company of good friends and family but don't need to have other people around to have a good time. I care a lot about people close to me.

What I’m doing with my life

Outside of work, the most important thing to me is rock climbing. My brother and I have a goal of climbing El Capitan in Yosemite before he turns 30. This means I need to get better at taking risks and pushing myself beyond what's comfortable. I figure that dating is a lot scarier to me than falling off a rock, so it's a good place to start.

I’m really good at

I'm good at problem solving in general, as long as I have time to work through things my way. If I'm rushed so that I can't fully understand things, I'll get frustrated, but I won't give up. I just keep plugging away until things work. Because of this, I'm not usually prone to jumping right into things. I need time to understand something first, but I am getting faster at that.

The first things people usually notice about me

When people first meet me, I probably come off as kind of quiet and a bit intense. It's not because I'm always like that; it's just that I'm trying to figure out who they are and where we stand.
I'm always polite to people I meet for the first time. If I've never met them before, there's no reason to treat them with anything but respect.
I also am generally laid back. I try not to let things get to me, and don't get worked up if something doesn't turn out like I'd hoped.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I generally don't have a single favorite of any of these things, but more of preferences.
Lately, I've been mostly reading science fiction, and of it I like William Gibson's work the best.
For movies, I generally watch thrillers or action, but do like a good comedy now and then. My favorite movie that came out this year is Zombieland. It's hard to put my finger on why, but it was just this great combination of dark humor with an overall positive spin.
I usually listen to hard rock, metal, and punk. I can enjoy classical or jazz situationally, but it's not what I have programmed on my radio. I hate rap & hip hop.
I like all sorts of food, as long as it's not bland or greasy. I really enjoy spicy or hot foods, so I prefer Thai, Mexican, or Italian over others. I like to cook, provided that there's people around to share it with.

The six things I could never do without

1) family
2) friends
3) rock climbing
4) being outdoors
5) new books
6) good cooking

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I think a lot about what's going to happen next. I wouldn't call it worrying, more like being ready. If I have an idea of what's just ahead, I can deal with it a bit easier when it comes, which leads to less stress. It lets me end up being a lot more easy going actually, since things don't come as much of a surprise.

On a typical Friday night I am

Usually, it's me and my house mates trying to unwind after a week of work. A lot of times this means getting together at a new restaurant or catching a movie. If they've got plans, I usually head to the climbing gym and spend a couple hours working on bouldering problems with people there.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm not very good at flirting... it's that whole "must know how things will work out" part of me that gets in the way.

You should message me if

The most important things I'm looking for is someone who shares my interest in the outdoors, especially climbing and is looking for a low key relationship. I'm not looking to rush into anything, but would like company enjoying our beautiful state.