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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 24
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I'm 5'10, I have long dark hair. I am very easy going. I'm married, she is a wonderful lady, but no person can be everything that another wants. She knows about this profile, and is perfectly fine with it. There is room in my heart to love more than one person. I am poly.

Honesty is incredibly important to me, it is both expected and offered.

I'm Pagan, but it's perfectly ok if you aren't. I love cooking, curling and far too many things to mention here.

I am honourable, enthusiastic, and polyamorous
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
One thing that is going on in my life right now is the long walk back to being fit. A back injury took me out for a year, knee injuries have prevented me from running, but now that I've taken up walking again, I'm on my way back.

I'm working in the computer industry.

I live in the country now, but have come to realize that I want more land. I would like to build a house on a few hundred acres, and have it totally self sustaining. I have come to accept that this is a long term goal.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Things that I love to do. Some examples are:

Thinking, Talking, Cooking, Curling, photography
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, well, it's usually the first thing they comment on anyway.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors are easier to name than the books, Terry Pratchett, William Diehl, David Morrell, JD Robb,Tami Hoag.

Movies: Just about any. I prefer ones that have decent lighting since Working as Director of Photography on a couple of short films. Most times I'm up for an intelligent comedy.

Music: Again, just about anything, it depends mostly on the context. I'm not one to complain unless it's too loud to carry on a conversation, if I'm trying to carry on a conversation that is...

Food: I feed people. It's what I do. I am a master of leftovers. Left on my own, the default would be a cheeseburger.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not can't, would choose not to: Honesty Communication Sex Love Friends Understanding
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How people in general could avoid miscommunication. The non linear time scale involved with the repetition of human history. What to cook for the upcoming meal. Why don't people ask the question they want the answer to. What a person's motivation was for doing what they just did.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever sounds like fun at the time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm so open to experiencing things that it often appears that I am indecicive, or have no opinions. This is of course horribly incorrect.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
"Because you should" is one of the silliest motivations for doing something.

You might want to message me if you enjoy good conversation, you want an honest opinion about something (fashion and design are not included here)