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30 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 2
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm positive, career-oriented and originally from the east coast. I started with magazines in NYC and now I do web content for a video game company. I may or may not think about work a tiny bit too much.

FWIW I'm not super sure that dating online hasn't fooled some into thinking they're shopping for a product, not trying to meet people. Real people, with flaws and scars, looking for others with good energy.

Anyway, I did the San Francisco roommate thing for six months. It was a mixed bag and I have stories, pretty much all you can ask for. It's a great city! It's also broken and overpriced, so I live down the peninsula now. It's a little slower but I'm turning 30 and know enough to know I need my space. You do what you have to do.

Young, self-aware, creative workaholic sums me up, I think.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Mostly working. Hopefully eating. Probably thinking about something too much.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Following my heart, making elaborate meals I can't finish by myself, thinking about the future.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not sure. If I'm wearing glasses, probably my glasses?

Also, I'm not super tall. I know some of you REALLY like tall dudes. That's fine, I'm just not the fella for you. If height is a deal-breaker then you're probably not my cup of tea, anyway.

Wear your heels. I have big arms. We'll be fine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
It's more about who you're with than where you're at, I'm learning.

I like to read - features, mostly. I devour digital media. I enjoy staying up to date on what's going on around the world.

I'm into empathetic people who like delicious food of all kinds, deep thought, fun conversation, and don't feel the need to constantly seek external approval.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Instead, here are six things that matter more to me than a list of my favorite objects:

- how you treat a waiter/waitress
- what type of eye contact you make
- how little you care about what people think
- how often you challenge yourself
- whether you have a strong sense of purpose
- whether or not you have stopped chasing the ghosts of your early 20s
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What on earth I'm going to make for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends, man.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I mean I'm already on a dating site talking about typical Friday nights, so that's plenty.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You've got a big ol' butt. Just kidding!
(not kidding)

Also, if you think there's more out there and want to chase it down with me.

If you have a strong opinion as to whether I should post a shirtless pic of me holding a package of bacon, I would like to hear from you.

And, if you're just a tiny bit kinky, that would probably be okay, too.