As an individual person: I am, indeed, an educated and "book smart" person, with two degrees, who loves suits, bow-ties and pocket squares - but I'm also waaay street savvy. I've been a sneaker-head, skate-boarding, train-hopping, graffiti-writing-juvi-record-having, black-eye-giving, knife-toting, pot-smoking, under-age-liquor-drinking, teen-night-club-going, high school drop out.
I find that I'm too street for my school friends and too school for my street friends -- I'm J. Cole. I'm Childish Gambino. I'm Kanye -- all without the misogyny, of course.
Also: I would, of course, prefer the subtleties of meeting someone organically in person, holding a hand, kissing a cheek, remembering a perfume, hearing the music of a woman's laughter -- but this is how people meet now, so let's go!