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30 Richmond, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:26pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm about to move to the West Bay from NYC in late October, my place will be in walking distance from the BART station. I'm moving for work, and because all my friends already live out there.

Nerds thinking I'm a Bro. Bros think I'm a geek. Geeks think I'm a hipster. Hipsters think I'm mainstream. I think that labels are limiting.

For the last 5+ years, I've been trying to always push myself out of my comfort zone. That has gotten me into some strange friendships, exciting experiences, amazing relationships, polyamory, and entrepreneurship. Interestingly, I don't really have much time for too much new these days. The best way I find to push myself is to pursue the things I'm already doing in my life and looking for connections with people is the main reason I'm still here. I want to meet people I wouldn't otherwise meet.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm starting a company which, if it succeeds, will cut medical costs, reduce patient wait times, improve patient care, and cause a few thousand extra people to not get cancer every year. We're already in testing at one hospital. I hope this works.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring out what someone needs and giving it to them. I may spend years doing it if we're especially close or if they're a client. For someone I met last week, I spent an hour and found her a job and a place to live that wasn't her parents' house.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: George RR Martian, Lawrence Watts-Evans, Jim Butcher, HPMOR, Neil Stephenson, Verner Vinge, Robert Heinlein

Movies: Moonrise Kingdom is in the running to be my favorite movie of all time, In Bruges, My Cousin Vinny, Cabin in the Woods, Batman: The Movie (with Adam West)

TV:Archer, The Muppet Show. Watching Gilmore Girls.

Food: Meat, veggies, dairy

Music: Doctor Teeth and the Electric Mayhem, Otis Redding
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Books
2) My friends
3) The truth
4) Kindness
5) Love
6) Initiative
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work, ethics, and leadership.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually going out at a party or other event, talking to some of the smartest people I can find.

Or relaxing in my room, resting from doing the above the previous however many days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I use HuluPlus almost as much as I use netflix, even with the commercials.
You should message me if
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Important note:
I'm currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship with sadielou13 and being ok with that is a must.

* If the person described above seems interesting to you
* If you're ok with me being silly, intense, curious, authoritative, and relaxed all in 5 minutes
* If you think I'm very wrong about something and want to tell me why
* If you think I'm very right about something and want to tell me why
* If you've spotted a spelling or grammar error.
* If you'd be interested in trying a constructed relationship, where we'd do bonding exercises like extended eye contact, and use comments designed to produce emotional attachment (I'm curious how well this would work with a consenting partner. I demonstrated this a few days ago with a straight male friend and the two of us ended up flirting by accident. It was a bit awkward.)
* [other reason that is totally insightful about human interaction but I haven't thought of yet]