Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Before I begin, let me state... i'm INFJ, if that means anything to
you, wonderful. If not, continue on below soldier!
This used to be called the Essay section; so, an essay shall
The joy of writing is a privilege that is granted to very few
people. Unfortunately, I am not one if those people. I would much
rather just meet people out and about and get to know someone,
alas, that's quite difficult for me due to the lack of
Either way, I'm not opposed to new friends, just too scared to get
them myself :)
Who enjoys writing about themselves? I don't consider myself as one
of those people, however, little questions to expound upon are
quite useful and convenient, and if you feel like reading below, I
do believe I've offered an interesting array of information for
your reading pleasure :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am finally back in Kansas from a 23 year hiatus. I am a masters
student at KU studying Opera and am thrilled to be in the area with
such an amazing support line!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting my point across and expressing myself, at the same time. I
have an abundance of patience and love listening to people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I haven't the slightest idea. Well, people like to tell me I'm a
good listener, but most of the time I am just learning about
them... I like to talk too, but I will not talk if there is nothing
that I can offer or contribute. I remember my Psych teacher quoting
something along the lines of "wise men speak little but say much,
I've kind of held on to that; that's not to say, however, that I've
never been caught with my foot in my mouth. Not a pleasant taste,
but not a completely foreign idea.
That was gross, and I'm quite honest, almost to a fault.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like quite a few, lemme make a short list... The Perks of Being a
Wallflower; The Autobiogaphy of a Face; Go Ask Alice; Invisible
Monsters; Ethan Frome; The Devil Wears Prada
I have few here that are my favorites, and it shows my movie-going
variety... The Little Mermaid, Hocus Pocus, The Red Balloon,
Amelie, Mr. and Mrs. Smith, The Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, Pan's
Labyrinth, The Incredibles, and a few others... it's late and I
I don't watch TV... but I netflix Bizzare Foods, Family Guy, South
Park, and No Reservations with Anthony Bourdain
Music is my life... I prefer classical music. And I will listen to
anything that isn't Country, or hard core rap.
Speaking of Classical Music though, that list is too extensive
*freebe* if you want a long and interesting conversation, talk to
me about your favorite composers and why ;)
that's all, I like it. I like anything, except pork, though I will
always prefer veggies over meats and seafood over everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Topher (my cat)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music. I'm always working on my music, it keeps me going. It's best
when you internalize it, and it becomes a part of you :)
I also spend a lot of time evaluating my actions and thoughts, and
analyzing other peoples' interactions with myself and other people.
I like to "people watch" I feel like I understand people a lot
better than most of the people I know... it doesn't mean that I do
better with most people...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm probably working, but I'd like to have a few people over for a
relaxing calm night. Not much on the big party scene, but I don't
mind going out on the town every now-and-then... but not
a few close friends over for a pot-luck-esque event, with strange
new foods, card games, charades, and maybe a movie to top off the
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really don't know. I'm pretty much an open book.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to :)
If you have a strong calling, interest, or participation in one of
the fine arts. They all pull my heartstrings, and whether or not I
am able to participate in yours, I loooove learning.
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