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24 Hoboken, NJ Man


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  • Ages 23–31
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Might want kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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When we read a "self-summary," I think we're looking for a story. We want someone to describe their personality and various statuses, like their ideas on ethics, playfulness, and how they take challenges in life. And maybe BDSM preferences. Hey, you never know. And, like any good story, it's better to show rather than tell.


At the coffee shop I work at (because an M.A. student’s got to pay the bills somehow), I like to say that someone who orders a small, medium, and large coffee just ordered a family. Is it stupid? Yes. Is it funny? Yes. Was that the point? You betchya.

See, I don't measure success by how fast I can become a millionaire or famous by way of TV show. I measure my success in life by how many times I've laughed so hard I can't breathe, and by the times I've really grappled with a complex idea in the company of someone else who is just as excitedly curious about the world as me.

This doesn't mean I'm not driven to accomplish anything in life. C'mon, I'm pursuing a PhD in a sub-field that's in its infancy, that's not a challenge for the lazy or faint hearted. But I don't look at the pages of history as a place where I ought to stamp my name, and roll my eyes at the people who do. Perhaps its my Midwestern/Korean upbringing, but if I'm going to accomplish something in life then I want it to be meaningful for more people than just me, and to be positive.
What I’m doing with my life
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Grad school, in large part, working in the space in between politics, anthropology, history, sociology, psychology, and international relations. Basically, the political ramifications of a variant of ethnogenesis not considered possible. To say it's complicated is an understatement.

But I do other things too, like kickboxing, and I've just starting weight lifting. There's also some painting, writing, video-gaming, reading, and other things mixed in there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking Bacon Beignets
Taking names in Left4Dead
Getting stuck in Spanish when drunk
Sleeping. Except when there's an earthquake. Then I'm the only one in the family who wakes up, it turns out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, or my abs. Or maybe that I'm approaching them like a friend en potentia as opposed to a stranger. I dunno. Ask them if you really want to know the details.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: More Than This (Patrick Ness)
Movie: Cloud Atlas
Show: Ghost in Shell - S.A.C.
Music: Marianas Trench
Food: Poached eggs on buttermilk biscuits with spinach, and hollandaise + paprika.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Hot water (a lesson from living in Chile)
2. Intense exercise
3. Luck
4. Things to learn
5. Meaningful friendships
6. Those moments where you realize you're being an idiot and, thereafter, stop being one
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the little stories we tell ourselves, and what that reveals about our backgrounds and perceptions of reality.

And why Chex Mix is so tasty.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, doing homework, or hanging out with friends after doing one of the two former things. Or working out. You never know.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a bottom/vers. Hey, it's useful information.
You should message me if
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being a bad-ass and goof-ball simultaneously doesn't sound impossible to you. If that's so, go ahead and drop me a line. I can't promise I'll bite, but what's life without a bit of risk?

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