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  • Ages 32-58
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Last online
Oct 14, 2014
Hispanic / Latin
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
High school
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My names Pedro, I'm New Jersey born and raised and I'm not wired in the head quite right.
That last statement covers a lot of territory, but maybe the rest of this profile will fill in the gaps.

On Thursdays I host a Gay community affairs radio show on WRSU 88.7 Fm.

I was exposed to HIV in the early 1980's. The health is good.
I figured that was the important stuff to get out of the way.

I'm artistic and a procrastinator. I'm a writer and have gotten essays published in a couple of online journals and zines.
Presently I'm writing a book of nonfiction.

Other compulsions include growing plants; gardens or containers.

Who am I?
I don't think I'm the best judge.

Friends have described as the elder of the local punk rock scene.

Have told me that I helped during rough time, sometimes just by being an example.

A friend who was extremely homophobic sent me a message on the day marriage equality was passed in NJ. He said I'd opened his eyes and ended with, "You're a good person."

And I was once told that I have "a gentle soul."

That's all I can think of right now. I'll edit and add eventually but I'll leave you with this. I carry a copy of the letter below in my wallet. It never fails to move and inspire me.

Letter from photographer Ansel Adams to his Brother Cedric.

"Dear Cedric.
A strange thing happened to me today.
I saw a big thundercloud move down over Half Dome,
and it was so big and clear and brilliant that it made me see many things that were drifting around inside of me; things that relate to those who are loved and those who are real friends. For the first time I know what love is; what friends are; and what art should be.
Love is a seeking for a way of life; the way that cannot be followed alone; the resonance of all spiritual and physical things...
Friendship is another form of love -- more passive perhaps,
but full of the transmitting and acceptances of things
like thunderclouds and grass and the clean granite of reality.
Art is both love and friendship and understanding: the desire to give. It is not charity, which is the giving of things. It is more than kindness, which is the giving of self. It is both the taking and giving of beauty, the turning out to the light of the inner folds of the awareness of the spirit.
It is a recreation on another plane of the realities of the world; the tragic and wonderful realities of earth and men,
and of all the interrelations of these.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I volunteer at a college radio station where I host and produce a Gay community affairs radio show. Am writing a book and concentrating on making art and am an out Gay role model for the kids.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Colbert Report, The Daily Show, Nova, BBC, Science Fiction, animation.

I'm presently reading 'Tis by Frank McCourt and
Meditations of Marcus Arurelius.

I'll get to work on a list of films I can watch over and over.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, Time with friends, silence in the morning, gardening of some kind, walking or doing some kind of regular exercise, being creative.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
to many things at once.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing what I usually do. Cooking, eating, writing, watching a movie, eating some more, hanging out with friends and/or watching a band.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The most private thing I'm willing to admit online? Nothing.
You should message me if
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