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30 Helsinki, Finland Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–36
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:45am
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I think it's time to re-write everything, so my profile is more or less under revision. It's not because of the big changes in life but because of all the small ones. They fill you up. And before you know it, the parts that made a whole, just don't add up anymore. So you start again. You sum everything up, and what you have is something else. So here I am now writing a summary that amounts to the person I am now. It's not comprehensive, nor is it an advertisement, but rather a kind of a journey we take together.
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying at the University of Helsinki, majoring on Environmental Soil Sciences with minors in Chemistry, Biochemistry, Microbiology, Mycology, Environmental studies and maybe some Geology. It's a lot and has taken most of my time for the past five years, but I kind of enjoy it. I chose to study soil science because I believe that our environment as well as agriculture are important and I want to do something that has a potential of making a difference, not because of money, nor out of pure scientific interest (althought I do think that what I study is awesome). Might sound a bit idealistic, but trust me, there's nothing as down to earth as having your hands in the dirt.

I work part-time in order to pay for my studies. It's more like a hobby really and provides some variation to my weeks. Besides I have a great job in the local hobby store and the best possible co-workers.

When I have extra time in my hands I like to paint. I enjoy acrylics because of the vivid colors and fast paced expression, but also the possibility of tiniest of details.

I also exercise regularly and have taken up Capoeira. It supports my enthusiasm towards dancing and I tend to hit the dance floor when the opportunity arises, which is not as often as I would like, due to everything else that I'm doing with my life.

Not really looking for anything at the moment, but on the other hand not afraid to find something.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have steep learning curve, so I take up many things, and if I have some time to put into it I'm usually pretty good at it. Things that I do put time into are my studies in the myriad fields of applied chemistry, card games and boardgames, which I enjoy quite immensely, and maybe movies and music, which I would very much like to write reviews on.

I used to work in a coffee shop and developed a passion towards coffee. This led me to compete as a Barista. Afterwards I became good in some aspects of making coffee, like knowing if the milk for a latte was being made the right by the sound of it and knowing what's wrong with the coffee by look of it. Still I can't say I'm too picky about my coffee. One or two cups of any kind in the morning will do just fine.

Writing walls of text, if haven't you noticed.
The first things people usually notice about me
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It used to be my bright red hair, and beard, and mustaches. But I imagine that the first thing that people notice about me in general is something related to my facial features. Especially my eyes, that I've been told are quite striking. Especially since they're not afraid to look into yours.

But let's try this the other way around. The first thing I'm likely to notice about you is your nose, if I can see your face that is. Because truth be told, your nose is standing in the middle of your face all regal like, and I like noses. They give people character. Your eyes as well. And honestly, people notice your eyes whether they're sparkling bonds of clearest blue or deepest dark of hazel. You don't need to have separate pictures of just your eyes, or one eye for that matter. They get noticed. Curves will be noticed as well, but are hardly on the first thing on the list, as facial recognition is what people aim at on first glance. Bear in mind that clothing can work wonders to obfuscate the mind and redirect the eye, but if your just you, then it's your face in full bloom that people notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read as it relaxes me to have my mind working on something. So at times I like to read literature written by some great minds of present and near past: John Gray, Arthur Koestler, Robert Nozick and John Rawls. Other times I immerse myself in fiction, from sci-fi to horror: Joseph Conrad, Frank Herbert, Orson Scott Card, Robert Holdstock, Edgar Allen Poe, Jeff Long, Holly Black, Neil Gaiman, Clive Barker and H. P. Lovecraft.

If I had to choose just one artist and just one song to call my own (don't we all have a song that in some ways defines us?) it would definitely be Crossroads by Don McLean.
Still there is no one music genre that would define my music taste. I listen everything from Chris Isaak to Kraftwerk and all the way to harder industrial like Wumpscut, Hocico. There is also room for more synthpop oriented music like Project Pitchfork,Depeche Mode, Apoptygma Berzerk, Covenant, Seabound, Edge of Dawn, Imatem, Camouflage, Wolfsheim, Diorama, And One, Assemblage 23 and BeBorn Beton. These are all music I can dance to, but I really enjoy jamming to 80s dance hits from artist like Alphaville, Duran Duran, Nik Kershaw just to name a few. And I can't help but mention other favorites from the 80s, like Kate Bush, Cyndi Lauper and Shakespears Sister.
I also like to listen to Indie, Electro and TripHop bands like Rome, Electric Six, Barenaked Ladies, Morcheeba, Philter, Ugress, Ratatat, Wax Tailor, Jem, Ashbury Heights, Tori Amos, Bertine Zetlitz, Karin Ström, Au Revoir Simone, Portishead, Saltillo, Conjure One, Strophic, RJD2 and Emancipator.

One should not forget to tip their top hats to such great artists like Danny Elfman, Baz Luhrmann and Tim Burton. They deserve to be mentioned separately, as they are in a league of their own.

My absolute favorite movie is Groundhog Day, there is just something about it that makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside. Other great movies that I love: Infernal Affairs, Only Lovers Left Alive, Predestination, The Jacket, Cashback, Children of Men, Mirrormask, Amélie, Strictly Ballroom, La Moustache, Dr. Strangelove, The Great Dictator, Colossus: the Forbin Project, Good Night, and Good Luck, Network and the original The Day the Earth Stood Still.
I quite enjoy well made older movies where actors could sing and dance among other things. Also I think that they used to pay more attention to dialogue and let the story evolve on its own pace, rather than rush from scene to scene, head over heels.

Some time ago I watched X-men: First Class. It introduces Charles Xavier and Erik Lehnsherr, characters made familiar in the previous movies. These two men, both want to make a difference in the world, in other words, they want to change the world, make it a better place. Which one do you think you would be? Xavier also known as Professor X or Erik Lehnsherr, Magneto? I think that the difference wasn't in how they perceived the world, but how they saw themselves. As part of the world or apart from it. Their differences made apparent by Raven's (Mystique) words: "You know Charles, I used to think it was gonna be you and me against the world. But no matter how BAD the world gets, you don't want to be against it do you? You want to be part of it." As Professor X, I bid my fate with the rest of them, regardless of how I'm viewed or treated. If you need someone to be against the rest of the world with. Then know that I cannot be that person, because I believe that only by being part of the society at large can I make a difference.

I do enjoy popculture and own the most comprehensive graphic novel collection, but I also enjoy ballet and art exhibitions.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could empty my life of everything but the very essential, but I would be no more happy than if I filled my house with all the useless junk in the world. It's as much the useless as the useful that make up the big and the small things in life. And somewhere between them, there is a balance.

I'm not a big spender, but I do buy quite a lot of books of wide variety So one thing I couldn't do without was reading. I can't even leave the house without a book or two in my bag.

For every tree and every flower, for every human being there are countless generations of forefathers, that have preceded those that stand now. For each there exists a lineage that has never been broken or else we wouldn't be here. Our close relatives are just the tip of the iceberg, and we call them family. An essential web of individuals, along with our close friends, that tie us to this moment and define our place in it. Through the tree of life we stand connected, in the sea of life no man is an island.

Something to do. I admit that I have a hard time just spending time doing nothing. It's made worse by the fact, that unlike most men, I'm fully capable of multitasking. So I'm always doing something, more often than not, several things.

If I had to think more, I think they would be something mundane, like socks. I probably couldn't do without socks, especially the woolly kind. Be it any of the four seasons, I wear my woollies proudly. At home.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...where my life is going. Because I don't believe in happy endings, fate, karma or any other force which would define my future. It's there, but out of reach, what counts is here and now. I think about my options, opportunities that present themselves and whether they will pave my way to the emerald city. But sadly the way is hardly paved with yellow bricks. And when it rains it pours. I don't believe there to be balance, nor a natural order of things. The only constant thing in life is change. So I let myself change and try to keep up with the world around me.

...the same thing as everyone else: Looking for love, thinking about sex and yearning for affection.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Studying at the university or at home. Working or playing games at friends' place, reading or watching a movie. Simply doing things I like most.

Sometimes I go out, because I do like dancing, but staying up late is not an option most of the time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I encourage people to be bold and honest. I'm very understanding and patient. So in order to get to know me, you only need to ask. A straight question gets an equally straight answer.

I admit having a thing for glasses and intelligence is a big turn on.

Appearance is important but it's the personality that matters the most, think of the body as a light bulb and mind as the electricity that makes it glow and light up the room. After all we are psycho-physical wholes.

I'm a sucker for happy endings.
You should message me if
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If you would like to challenge me intellectually or if someone has told you lately that you think too much, then you should message me and share those thoughts.

PS. I'm quick witted and quite perceptive, but I'm no Sherlock Holmes. So if you're interested in getting to know me, then please open don't spare words but tell me something about yourself. I'm not here to do the twenty questions routine.

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