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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 24, 2013
5' 10" (1.78m)
Special Diet
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English, French
My self-summary
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I'm a queer folk musician with a deep love for traveling and being flogged against the side of VW buses in the rainforest. Though this thing says up there that I'm "bisexual" and "single", I'm really a queer, poly switch. (More about that later!) I'm currently in a relationship with the lovely Folina. I adore my metamors, but I'm looking for a hunky man thing - someone with a queer edge and a taste for domination. I love many aspects of kink and gender fucking - but we don't have to reveal EVERYthing in the first couple sentences, do we MARY!?

I'm happy and I love to laugh. Don't continue down this tunnel of love if you're looking for a dark, jaded, stiff drink... I'm kind of spiritual, really free, and fun-loving. I've spent most of my life looking for adventures and finding them.
What I’m doing with my life
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Recently quit England and fundraising for Greenpeace to folllow my instincts and dreams. Loving California and making music. I live at the Vulcan in Oakland - an amazing conglomeration of crazy talented people all smushed into warehouses that look like a circus apocalypse exploded all over them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing like a lark [Folina], making up lyrics, snowboarding, massage, roleplay....
The first things people usually notice about me
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blonde fairy dreads... or my horsey laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Dark Crystal, Finding Nemo, Home, Samsara, Food Inc.

Food: Organic anything, vegetables, vegan delicacies... aaaaand... icecream!

Shows: Cirque du Soleil, anything drag... Oh. I've just been informed this means television? I have no idea.

Music: Animal Collective, Bjork, Bob Dyllan, M. Ward, Joni Mitchell, Devendra Bandhart, Johanna Newsom, Coco Rosie, Queen, Seasick Steve, The White Stripes, The Strokes, The Velvet Underground, Nico, Ray LaMontagne, Antony & the Johnsons, Macklemore & Ryan Louis, MIA, Die Antwoord, The Kinks, Bob Marley, early Kings of Leon, Laura Marling, Jolie Holland, Kate Bush.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My guitar, crystals, pen & paper, beautiful food, beautiful friends, beautiful lovers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My gender, making love, how to do my makeup, how I can't wait to go to Ida, songs I'm writing or going to write, changing the world for the better, the environment, California - future travels and adventures.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with lovers and friends or getting ready with lovers and friends for some kind of show or party.
You should message me if
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- You're poly and queer. I'm looking for someone who wants the girl inside of me. . . I love women, but I'm on here looking for some sort of boy-ish friend. . . Still, if you Are a lady, don't let that stop you.
- You abide by practices that keep you and your loved ones safe from STDs.
- You're looking for a pretty boy to sing you pretty lullabies and crazy rock anthems.