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37 M Lisbon, Portugal

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, and very serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Landing in Lisbon on Monday April 14th, for an indefinite time.
Let us see how it goes. Open to both friendships ♂ ♀

On my first night, a friend offered me English poems by Pessoa ♥

P.S : I don't speak any Portuguese ☁, thus will learn it day by day. Or not, depends how much I enjoy it over here. I'm used to much bigger place.

Enterprising migrant, unorthodox cosmopolitan, a bit cerebral, wandering around cultures, territories and predispositions, refining my own perceptions and perspectives, proving some versatility. Untrammeled by mores, but amused from a distance...
Utterly progressive and rational, sometimes abstract or pragmatic, often libertarian and always liberal.

From Mediterranean origins. Raised and educated within the Commonwealth, in West-Africa, UK then worked in France, Belgium, based in Asia for the last 4 years, recently in Toronto...

☢ Hoping Not for traditional or 'passéiste', spiritual or religious, asinine or lackadaisical, old-fashioned or jingoistic mindsets, more generally low in need for cognition.
☺ Yes, a warm Welcome to Enlightened and self-aware, self-possessed, feisty spirits, multi-layered and independent personalities...

Assuming I would offer some similarities...Of course !

Anecdotal : I'm a textbook existentialist, anguish compliant, fearless and adventurous as often as possible.
... Not a pet addict, but can't trust anyone who remain indifferent to living creatures and Nature.
What I’m doing with my life
Relentless quest for fierce outspoken individuals...
Observing, listening, experimenting, learning, playing, questioning, humoring, rationalizing, rejecting, touching, objecting, sexing up, exchanging, feeling, achieving, compromising, thinking, embracing, falling...

I'm one to peruse presumably well-accepted and obvious things, while skimming across supposedly serious subject matter.

Legend by Hart Crane (1920s)

...I am not ready for repentance;
Nor to match regrets. For the moth
Bends no more than the still
Imploring flame...
I’m really good at
Cooking Moroccan couscous. 'Untraceable', yet foreign accent.
Confusing some people while spending out myself.
Relishing smoked salmon and Vodka, with Glen Gould & Kindle.
The first things people usually notice about me
Bewildering... argumentative or simply talkative.
Sometimes provocative, subversive or disruptive in my best days.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Here and now :
- 'The West and the Rest', Niall Ferguson
- 'Culture in a Liquid Modern World', Zygmunt Bauman
- 'Beyond Good and Evil', re-reading Nietzsche...
...The engrossing World of Tomi Ungerer

Lately :
- 'Let's explore diabetes with owls', David Sedaris
- 'The White Tiger', Aravind Adiga
- 'Michel Foucault', Sara Mills
- 'Capitalism with Chinese Characteristics', Yasheng Huang
- 'Kaddish' Allen Ginsberg & some Hart Crane's poetry

Movies :
- 'The Sound of Insects: Record of a Mummy', Peter Liechti (novelist Shimada Masahiko)
- 'Adore' (Perfect Mothers), Anne Fontaine
- '愛のコリーダ', Nagisa Oshima - R.I.P !!!
- 'Laurence Anyways', Xavier Dolan
- 'Intimacy', Patrice Chéreau
- 'The Master' by Paul Thomas Anderson

Shows & News :
- The Daily Show by John Stewart / Colbert Report
- Wall Street Journal & BBC (Hardtalk)
- 'House of Cards' / 'The West Wing'
- 'Dexter' / 'Californication' / 'The Newsroom' / 'Breaking Bad'
The six things I could never do without
Reason & Sensuality
Nietzschean Will to power
Sociability & Empathy
Critical & Disruptive thinking
Reading / Writing
Music / Transcendence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"If they have you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about the right answers." Pynchon.
On a typical Friday night I am
'Typical'... I'm not really a creature of habit.

Since I used to be involved in the Sanghainese musical scene, I would probably start by checking some artists/friends for live concerts & Indie Electronica (Ryan Davis, Apparat, G Borrato, Spada, Paul K, Van Hai, Undo, Opuswerk...etc)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm somehow an open-book, not much I'm ashamed of, even apologetic for...
I learned late how to perform and enjoy a decent cunnilingus, thanks to a couple of lesbians friends in the parisian Marais. They were wonderfully patient and educated me well :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
FIRST and FOREMOST, if you have read my profile, and intend to meet offline.

I'm not exclusively looking for similitudes, but our differences shouldn't be just tolerated, they ought to inspire each other.

If you can grasp the trace of madness in someone, if you have your own world, self and volition, yet able to share it, we shall either be friends, lovers, or anything in between...

Let us go out on a limb, and laugh at it.