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38 M Paris, France

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Last Online
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White, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, and very serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Welcome Paris & around till September.
To reflect, regain, and rejoice !

Always on the lookout for inspirations & initiatives...
Any local spirited or rootless wanderer, willing to mix together thoughts and sensations.
I shall listen carefully, and indulge them.

About me :
Now : Cosmopolitan freak ! Enterprising migrant, unorthodox to some, wandering around cultures, territories and predispositions, refining my own perceptions and perspectives, craving some versatility. Untrammeled by mores, but amused from a distance...

Geographically : Raised in Nigeria, then lived, studied & worked in London, Paris, Brussels, Beijing, Shanghai, and lately in Toronto. Soon a staunch Yankee ;-) Will see.

** Potential friendly exchange - 2014 **

* You are friendly, speak English & want to spend few days in Paris. I may well decide, to host you, should you need it.

• ¡Hola!, Wanted - Hispanophone! - I may need some Spanish for my future in California. Muchas gracias...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Business, writing, experimenting, competing, philosophizing...

"...I am not ready for repentance;
Nor to match regrets. For the moth
Bends no more than the still
Imploring flame..."
['Legend' by Hart Crane, 1920s]

"When I'm awake, I feel that vital force which obliges me.
Nothing is to be expected, everything has to be lived, to be shared. No salvation elsewhere, I'm thinking, it is here and right now.
And I'm lucky enough that it starts again the next day." Cy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking Moroccan couscous. 'Untraceable', yet peculiar accent.
Relishing smoked salmon and Vodka, Glenn Gould & Kindle.

What I'm really Not good at :
Understanding : leftist, socialist, among other collectivists. Nor, Conservatism, traditionalism, protectionism, nationalism...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bewildering... argumentative or simply talkative & playful.
Sometimes provocative, subversive or disruptive in my best days.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Here and now :

― 'The West and the Rest', Niall Ferguson
― 'Culture in a Liquid Modern World', Zygmunt Bauman

― 'Beyond Good and Evil', re-reading Nietzsche...
"... Even if language, here as elsewhere, will not get over its awkwardness, and will continue to talk of opposites where there are only degrees and many subtleties of gradation;..."

Lately :
― Aravind Adiga, 'The White Tiger'
“...the future of the world lies with the yellow man and the brown man now that our erstwhile master, the white-skinned man, has wasted himself through buggery, cell phone usage, and drug abuse” ― Aravind Adiga, The White Tiger

- 'Let's explore diabetes with owls', David Sedaris

Movies :
- 'The Sound of Insects: Record of a Mummy', Peter Liechti

Shows & News :
- The Daily Show by John Stewart / Colbert Report
- Game of thrones, Vikings, Dexter, Californication, The Newsroom, Breaking Bad...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Reason & Sensuality
Nietzschean Will to power
Sociability & Empathy
Critical & Disruptive thinking
Reading / Writing
Music / Transcendence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The contingent nature of historical truths...
Culture as herd mentality... Sometimes esoteric, discriminatory or merely national... Dubious, it makes me.

"If they have you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about the right answers." Pynchon.

The Genius of the crowd : "...Beware those who seek constant crowds / for they are nothing alone / Beware the average man the average woman... They will attempt to destroy anything that differs from their own... "
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Craving social change, more than traditional acceptance...
Naturally supporting LGBT activism. and more generally, I would tend towards being sex-positive, i.e. pansexual.

I love princess-women. I would endeavor to find them a nice castle,
then cut off the electricity & drinkable water.
They would then fall asleep, awaiting for their prince (another one).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
First and foremost, if you are looking for a genuine exchange & eventually a meeting in person.

I'm not looking exclusively for similitudes, but our differences shouldn't be just tolerated, they ought to inspire each other.

If you can grasp the trace of madness in someone, if you have your own world, self and volition, yet able to share it, we shall either be friends, lovers, or anything in between...

Let us go out on a limb, and laugh at it ;-)