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Animadi

27 / F / Bisexual / Single

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

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What is anyone really looking for?

Jun 21, 2010

OkCupid!

This is a dating site? I guess that is the idea, emotional/psycho-social voyeurism safely from your bedroom laptop.

What am I looking for?
An adventure, a lover, a playmate and conversation, cup of coffee/tea or anything in between.

I am a very intimate person, but that doesn't usually come with expectations beyond honesty expressions of intimacy or connection.

I love connecting with people, I guess that connection is what I seek.


I think it genuinely scares people as they expect I want something, well I don't want to place restrictions, censor or take anything away from a person's quality of life.

I like bringing a the sense of calm and bliss I try to cultivate in my life into others.

 

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OkCupid!

This is a dating site? I guess that is the idea,emotional/psycho-social voyeurism safely from your bedroomlaptop.

What am I looking for?
An adventure, a lover, a playmate and conversation, cup ofcoffee/tea or anything in between.

I am a very intimate person, but that doesn't usually come withexpectations beyond honesty expressions of intimacy orconnection.

I love connecting with people, I guess that connection is what Iseek.


I think it genuinely scares people as they expect I want something,well I don't want to place restrictions, censor or take anythingaway from a person's quality of life.

I like bringing a the sense of calm and bliss I try to cultivatein my life into others.

 

What is anyone really looking for?
An image of momentai I feel the same way about expectations. I get the idea I approach people and they fear I want more than I say I do. I just want to connect and talk. If anything more intimate develops, good, if not, still good b/c I have someone to have comfortable conversations with. It saddens me that more people than not seem to always suspect ulterior motives when I am just looking for a friend to share time and thoughts with.

momentai commented on Jun 21, 2010